I've played with this group that needed my help to do King's Fall Heroic. Everything went perfectly fine until we reached the final boss. I got killed and I get yelled at for dying. Then one of my friend got killed too and he too got yelled at for dying as well. So we decided to wipe and try again. On the second run, my friend got killed again and the people started to get more frustrated at him. I told them to calm down and that things happens. But they said that we shouldn't be dying if our light lvl is 310+. We wiped again. On the third run, we reached the Shade, the second I got teleported, I got killed. And, as usual, they got mad and told me to stop dying. I even told them that it was my fault on that one. But they got even more mad when I was being honest of my mistake. I mean, when I know I make an error, I admit it. Afterwards, I managed to stay alive but my good friend kept on dying. I told him that it's okay but the others told them that it's not and started insulting him. I stood up for him and told them to chill out and that it's just a video game. To make my story short, my friend kept on dying and the people started to insult him even worse up to the point of them being racist towards him. I told them to apologize. They refused and kicked him just be cause he kept on dying. I did the right thing and left them too. I rejoined my good friend and he told me that he is done playing online games and signed out. It is sad that there are people out there who are taking the game too seriously.
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4 RepliesI read your post and from what I can tell, you and him were the weak links in that raid. So tell me, what's the protocol? How many times does someone have to -blam!- up before I kick them from a raid? Is it two deaths?3 deaths?4? Seems to me like you wanted them to tough it out until yall got done but there is no telling how long that can take...like ever, could take you an hour, could take you 8, there is never a way of knowing when playing with randoms and that's not a risk or a chance anyone likes taking. However I agree that name calling shouldn't have a occurred and racial slurs should not have happened, I feel like they gave you guys a fair shot, I've played on teams that kicked players if they died once, they kicked him after he had died several times so I feel like they were more than generous in letting you and your buddy stay that long. I'll end this on this note though, first off your buddy is not done with online games because that's basically all that is relevant right now and will continue to be. Another thing is that he said he's not playing destiny anymore, if anything you should thank those guys for being dicks, if the shitty game won't make you leave, the community surely will and he would have left anyways had yall defeated oryx because after that there is nothing to do, and the loot is terrible to where it's only about light. I'd say that team jus saved your buddy a shit ton of time and heart ache. Tell your buddy to go grab fallout so he can really enjoy a fun game.
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2 RepliesI'm sorry that happened to you. Some people are assholes
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1 ReplyYour post starts by saying you were helping them which implies they needed your help. If the people you are helping cannot accept the help then tell them to go get fauqed and find somebody else to help. Then you and your friend leave their party and go play a different activity together. You are going to run into asshats everywhere (maybe more on Destiny than elsewhere) but young people seem to feel entitled to everything they want immediately. You can only control your actions not those of others. When you find yourself in a toxic environment it is within your own power to leave and get yourself out of it.
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3 RepliesWelcome to destiny, this is the community.
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4 RepliesYou got with a bad group, it's unfortunate but true. And it's not that people take this game too seriously it's just that they probably wanted to get it done fast. Since it seems that you and your friend were the only ones dying (especially your friend) there was clearly something that you and your friend weren't doing correctly.