-get to know her friends as well (additional step to this mentioned later)
-confidence (at least I am told it works)
-talk to her (preferably unrelated to the topics of porches, attack helicopters, and being bant)
-if you think you can trust her friend, tell them about your intent the friend should be able to help you
English
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Well if any guy approached me and talked about being bant, attack helicopters, and especially porches I'd walk into the sunset with him.