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Edited by zalathepious: 9/26/2015 8:48:51 AM
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Why do older players hate younger players?

We were all young squeaky prepubescent kids before and back then it didn't matter if I played with an adult or someone the same age as me! But now people are so uptight they hate playing with kids because they are acting like KIDS! You can't force a kid to act 10 years above his age just because you hate the sound of his voice or his over excitement and curiosity and childish ignorance! I understand if they are yelling for no reason but if they are having a good time and just enjoying themselves and being happy I have no problems! Everyone here that Is above 18 and don't like playing with younger guys, GET OVER YOURSELVES. We are grown ups and should act accordingly! These kids are how we are supposed to be! Carefree, having fun, and just escaping reality when playing games. Honestly if you act like an old grump who conplains about working all day and just ridicules these young guys that are enjoying themselves then you need to get off the game and find something else because you are doing it for the wrong reason. I'm 18 and I've been in groups where guys just hate on these kids because they make a mistake or because they have high voices or just because they are just too excited! They are having fun and they should not be ridiculed for that. So next time I see one of you old whiners I'll say my share of words and report you for harassment. TLDR: older people need to stop complaining about younger players and find the joy in gaming again. Edit: so it seems majority of the people on here despise younger players because of the inability to play higher level content. It also seems like most of the destiny community just despise younger people because they are kids. What I am getting from you guys is that you want these kids to act like and be like 20-30 year olds when playing with older people. Hah so baffling. That is so pathetic. You expect these kids to be mature and whatever and let me tell you it doesn't matter how they are raised ALL kids play games to just enjoy themselves and live in a different mindset! When I was playing games around 10-14 years of age me and my friends would all yell into the mic and just scream stupid shit out of pure excitement because we were having FUN. You older players seem to want to bottle up their childish like mind and conform them into mature adults, which is totally wrong to just throw a kid past all the learning experiences and push him into adult like behavior. Pathetic. This community makes me sick. I hope DEEJ sees this and sees just how toxic the older ages of the fan base are. Edit: I can't believe I didn't see this sooner. I'm in utter disbelief that you guys are expecting all the young guys to be SKILLED MLG players! They are young and therefore don't really care about how good they are they only care about doing whatever they need to in whatever way they can. I've seen a young player easily handle himself in multiple strikes and ALL the raids and enjoy all of it too.On the other hand I know a young player who isn't that in tune with the game and struggles a lot but he's having a blast at the same time. It's because they both have different play styles and mindsets. The majority of kids will be like the second kid! They will struggle a lot and won't be very good with the game but you can't expect more because this is just something they hop on at school or their free time and they don't play with the mindset of becoming super good at the game they just play to have fun and just experience everything no matter how hard or easy. You will come across those who understand the game very well and wil be more skilled then most older players but that's also because they play with mindset to be GOOD and to actually complete he higher level content with less struggle because they don't like dying or anything like that. The higher level content does have a learning curve that most players will have to take a little time to adjust to it. It's just the way our brains process things. The more i talk about this the more it makes me sick. It's fine if you don't want to play with younger players but don't PENALIZE them for being YOUNG. Edit: so there is a lot of people complaining about my text walls so I have adjusted them accordingly. It seems the general conclusion is that it's either you don't like kids in general or you don't care about age and you care about skill. I totally respect these two points but the one I think we should all be seeing from instead is he skill instead of age. The whole point of this post is to not separate generations in gaming and to not create a young and old player base in game communities because that just creates toxicity and it will burn down any game because of the major difference in views. For instance if there were separate communities for destiny decided by age groups then that's a whole bunch of players not interacting with each other and not having the chance to even say a word to each other. I've met some great friend online that are 20-30 years older then me and if there was an age division then I would've never met them and lose out on those friendship. I hope some of you understand but right now all I see is a separation in the community. Make a friend. Change lives. Final edit: this is my final edit and my final thoughts on this whole situation. Destiny in reality is not going to last forever. It may not last the ten years bungie said they planned for it. But just take some time to think that while we (this is my personal games I grew up with, I am just stating this as a general assumption that most people my age and a little older have played these games) grew up with Pokemon, Mario, metroid, final fantasy, runescape, Everquest, Medal of Honor, halo, crash bandicoot, ratchet and clank, jak and daxter, fable, Need for speed, world of Warcraft, armorgames, max games, sims, and all the Star Wars games. ( there is many more but I don't want to make this whole thing a list). These kids nowadays are growing up with these games! DESTINY is their Mario. When they become the 30s and 40s of the gaming community they will remember this game and they will eventually turn into what the older players, that have commented on this post, have become. I wish to break that chain and break the general thought that it's not possible to play with someone a couple generations younger then you. Let the gaming community not let these subjective views based on general thoughts divide us. Yes the majority of young players are prone to the yelling and screaming and all the other issues but instead of leaving take a chance and try to help and support them. Be a leader and guide them, don't just leave them in the rain. These young guys are the future and the same will go on until time ends. You all say "I wasn't like that when I was young, I was a well mannered child" do you know why kids aren't like that anymore? Because most of their parents don't care to lead them and teach them the rights and wrongs. That's when it falls on us as a gaming community to rub off on these guys and let them know that they are part of a family that spans across the entire WORLD. The next time you are about to leave because you can't take it anymore just say one nice thing to them such as "have a great day!" Or " it was nice playing with you" it doesn't matter if they are bad or yell stupid things or swear. Be kind and nudge them a little in the right direction. You aren't the only person they play with during the day they probably go through HUNDREDS of people and they all do the same thing but just imagine if all of them just added a little kindness and guidance. A changed life. Good luck my fellow guardians. Young or old when the darkness comes I will stand by you and protect the light.
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  • There were no online games when I started playing video games. And it's not the kids I hate. It's their non-stop babbling and screwing around when we are trying to get shit done.

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      I dont like playing destiny with "kids" because I prefer to play with like minded people my age who won't go around being idiots and wasting time it's that simple. 15-20 years old and won't -blam!- about? Sure join my fireteam but most of the time that doesn't happen

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      • Edited by Draculag: 9/28/2015 2:36:02 PM
        This is all fine and good, but I don't have the amount of pain medication needed to listen to that voice for more than a couple hours.

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        • I dont hangout with 14 yr olds so why would i play video games with them??? My bad i like to be around people my age and maturity level.

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        • Doesn't like when older players hate on younger players. Proceeds to hate on older players for 238 paragraphs. OP fgt confirmed

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          • I'm 14 is that still young I often stay in raids because I stay quiet and I have common sense also I sound like I'm 20

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            • Tldr , cause little british kids voice sounds quite awfully anoying on a mic

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              • I don't care if I play with a kid, I only hate it when they start being mouthy and keep talking over me. But if they just chillin I don't mind.

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              • Reasons I hate playing with little kids: 1. They think they know everything 2. They arent that smart 3. They complain about EVERYTHING.

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                • Get off your soapbox, kid!

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                • I did an oryx run with three squeakers and two who were probably 20 or so. It was perfect no screw ups from anyone and got him first go.

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                • I don't like playing with little ones so I dont, I don't like trump, so I won't vote for him, simple as that

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                • Y not

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                • There were no online games when I started playing video games. And it's not the kids I hate. It's their non-stop babbling and screwing around when we are trying to get shit done.

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                • In Europe Destiny is rated PEGI 16 so if you look at it that way kids under that age shouldn't really have it in their possession.

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                  • Bruh I'm 14 and probably have a deeper voice than most of the people on these forums

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                    • [quote]We were all young squeaky prepubescent kids before and back then it didn't matter if I played with an adult or someone the same age as me![/quote] Speak for yourself, buddy. We didn't have mics or online play back when missile command first came out on Atari. And our parents limited gaming time by sending our butts outside to play with sticks and dirt clogs! We didn't have any of these modern day gaming systems that these young whipper snappers of today take for granted. And the 3 boring channels we got on tv, limited television watching on its own. In all seriousness, Destiny is rated "T", so there shouldn't be kids under 13 online playing. The last thing I want after I put my kids in bed and get online is to play with someone else's kids. I want adults that I can have fun with, have mature discussions, joke around, and forget about the stresses of the day. I'm 42; I have no interest in playing with 10 year olds.

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                    • Edited by SolarCerberuS: 9/29/2015 9:29:11 PM
                      Hmmm usually I don't mind gaming with anyone who has a level head and doesnt flood the mic with ranting but OP post is a perfect example of an EXCESSIVE cry fest so perhaps some kids like you talk (and type) way too much, just some food for thought man. I have 2 young kids of my own and after spending time with them after a long day at work I jump on destiny to tune out and relax the last thing most adults want is to be put up with other kids if they are the loud complaining or even yelling type. If well mannered though I have no problem gaming with anyone

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                    • Agreed. I'm 14 and people barely realise. Sure if I hear a high-pitched kid playing who I just can't stand I'll get annoyed of course but I won't go too far. I'd just mute them or move away. But I just speak for myself here cause seriously, I feel like I'm the more mature one cause I just see 16+ people hating on kids cause they play a game. As I said I am 14 and I personally have not got a high pitch voice like most (thankfully) and I don't insult people and I stay generally quiet.

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                    • Edited by DeAdRoMeO101: 9/29/2015 9:20:51 PM
                      Not me . Some , as you call them " squeakers " took me through the raid . They literally danced through it. Thanks guys . kids to go to war with. I'm 39

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                    • First, I agree. Second, you spent WAY too much time writing this out.

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                    • Threatening that you will report people in an attempt to force or coerce them into conforming to your belief of what is acceptable or not is utterly reprehensible and discusting . You are taking the far side of each spectrum and presenting it as how the majority of old or young players are , when that is not Fact and the Majority of players of all age grouped play the game just fine together , yes they are a Minority of adult players that might prefer to play with people of a similar maturity just as there are younger players who would rather play with other young players than play with someone older than their Dad . But the vast Majority of both are not rude about it. Only a very small percent of the population is rude to youger players for being young, and those adults are immature themselves , but in the same vein it helps the kids see that some adults just like other kids can be jerks (and believe me some kids can be meaner and nastier than most adults in the game ) and teaches them to ignore,block,mute those people from their life and find poeple to play with that have similair goals,playstyles,etc,,, Jerks wether old or young exist in the world and in video games , you can't censor them all but kids can learn that the world has jerks in it, they can get a thicker skin and learn how to remove bad elements from their life and their gameplay

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                      • LMAO i think i made it to line four, then it all kinda started to go blah blah blah.. You wanna play with the lil kiddies scream'n in your ear or over you TV have at it :)

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                      • How many adults hang out with children for fun.. None so why would we want to play games with them. Want to talk to someone on the same maturity level

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                        • They ask questions and don't listen to the answers. They use language that horrifies me, at that age i didn't even know those words. They're some of the rudest, prideful, and. android obnoxious d-bags. Did i say they think they're better than everyone else? Better in every way? So i know some aren't like this. I'll play with them. But they're a minority. And don't excuse their behavior "because they're kids". Otherwise you're giving them entitlement and telling them what they're doing is ok (hint that's denying them learning experiences) One last thing- i remember what i was like at that age... And i knew that the behavior mentioned above is horribly wrong. Just because someone is a kid doesn't mean they have to be immature. (you're telling people to not force kids to behave in a certain way, and yet you're kinda doing it yourself.) Note- this isn't an attack, i merely want to point out a few things you might want to think about.

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                          • Edited by Doos: 9/29/2015 8:53:19 PM
                            So the squeakers are fine and all. I have a few on my friends list. Its the brats I hate. The know it all, rude ass motherfûckers. So a buddy pointed out to me that he and several others thought I collected bratty squeakers to troll... Oh god. They're right. I'm a horrible person.

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