Cheating? This is one of those times I have to go all out. As a father of two I have every right to call you a -blam!-ing retard. Backing out of a trials match is not cheating, its frowned upon yes, but it's not cheating. The fact that you grounded your son for something like this tells me you don't even know how to be a dad. Or is the reason you grounded him from destiny because it looked bad on your clan? It's a -blam!-ing game man grow the -blam!- up. The harshest you should have been with him is prevent him from playing with your clan or remove him from it, but no you actually grounded him? Damn I feel sorry for that kid. If the thoughts of the destiny community on you punishing your son and clan reputation are more important then your son's enjoyment with video games then please just stop playing and go spend time with your family. Clearly need to sort out your priorities.