Right, this may sound belittling and condersending but here goes.. you have the affliction of being a teenager, your yearning and need for affection is a natural stage of growing up....but be careful once you do manage to hook this lady (for which I have every confidence) it turns into more of a mind feck. Don't over stress, go on holiday (meet other girls) if you can master this turmoil and come out unscathed the rewards will be huge...p.s. Sex is great