Telling someone who hates PvP/IB/ToO/PoE to get good and just do it is like telling gays that if they try hard enough they can learn to like girls. For me, I'm too old and slow to do well at those activities, but I love raids, Nightfalls and Weeklies etc. and Etheric Light should be available to those of us who do Nightfall/Weekly/Story/Bounties just as it is for those who like PvP and PoE