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Edited by Zombarney: 6/12/2015 7:08:52 PM
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how do you beat bullies?

Ok so when I was old enough to be trusted outside (9) me and my family moved to Spain, which naturally meant going to school in a place where you didn't speak the language well. While I was there I made friends and enemies, one enemy in particular, his name was Sergio and we hated eachother, he would always try and show me up because he was a problem child (he was crying of constipation in class one time then his mum turned up to take him home and he just started shouting at her telling her to -blam!- off) Anyway this one day in particular was a Wednesday, I remember it was a Wednesday because every Wednesday there is a market right next to our school and the clever bastards put a sweet stand right by the fence, so naturally we would ask our parents for euros to spend and I would by the good stuff, Melones: http://www.confitelia.com/WebRoot/StoreES/Shops/ea3441/4F42/19FA/CA2F/2476/8E0F/AC10/1417/2A3A/MELONES-CHICLE-PAQUETES.gif Llenguas: http://www.confitelia.com/WebRoot/StoreES/Shops/ea3441/50FF/CADA/B16C/37CD/46D5/AC10/1417/4F8D/LENGUAS-FINI-BOLSITA.jpg Anything sweet to a child at that point, But this -blam!-ing kid Sergio bought a bag full of olives, and just spent the whole day throwing them at me, but I didn't hit him... Yet. it came to lunchtime and he still had them, I sat down and was about to eat one of the few things I would eat from this school, chicken and mash (I should probably mention at this point I hated olives and not just because he was throwing them at me) But this -blam!-er Sergio just wanted to keep going, so he sat opposite me and kept throwing olives. And the miracle shot happened, it bounced off of my eye and into my mash, I did mention that I hated olives but to the point where I couldn't eat anything they touched. So at this point I was done, I calmly put my knife and fork down on the table and looked at him with that shit eating grin. I then walked the long way around the table when I got to the end of the table and as I was walking towards him we where both staring each-other down. As I was approaching him his shit eating from turned into a retarded facial expression like his face was melting (halfway in-between a "watchu gunna do" + "uh oh"). And then there I was, I stood right next to him and he turned to face me... And I cocked my arm right back and laid into his face, busted his nose and (I think) knocked one of his teeth out. Aware of the shitstorm of trouble I was about to get into for defending my white English self against a homeland a Spanish kid I calmly sat back down at my chair and awaited judgement, Which consisted of sitting by the reception for the rest of lunch only to be told to go to class. But it didn't end there as much as I wish it did, the next day he brought in a knife tucked into his trousers and flashed it to me and my mates while we was playing a game of connect 4... Now I want you to picture this: 3 9-10 year olds playing connect 4 wearing hoodies, nike caps and Adidas trainers looking like the little shits we where but playing connect 4 innocently(ish) and then being intimidated by another 9-10 year old with a knife. So after that I asked my friends as to what they think I should do to which they told me to tell the teacher, which I did. Once again come lunch time he has sped past everyone making a dash for the front gate, jumped over to which a police car pulled up and a cop started chasing him on foot... over the next couple of weeks many rumours started to circulate... some said he was in juvie, but I think that because he got in one little fight his mum got scared and said "you're moving with your aunty & uncle in bel-air". [b]TL;DR : I ruined a kids educational prospects by punching him in the face.[/b] Now, when and how did you stand up to a bully? And what happened afterwards?

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  • Hug them with all fours and don't let go

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    • They say fight fire with fire but instead I [i]became[/i] the fire.

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    • Edited by t3h 3p1k duk: 6/23/2015 7:14:23 PM
      Git gud[spoiler]The epic duck is coming [/spoiler]

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    • I beat the poor kid until I pulled off of him, was never bullied again.

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    • You beat them by standing up for yourself

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    • I have a question that's related to this topic. I recently purchased a stun baton. Supposedly, it discharges 20 million volts of electricity. I bought it specifically to resolve a long awaiting, inevitable confrontation with an old friend-turned-enemy. My question is this, If I shoved the end of the baton into this guy's mouth while he was unconscious and pressed the button, would that kill him? I don't want to kill him, I just want to really scare him and hurt him too but I mostly want to give him the idea that I DGAF and will go to extremes when I'm mad. I appreciate this thread very much. Thank you.

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      • I dont have bullies. People at my school are afraid to fight me. They say i look like the Mexican hulk. But, if i did get into a fight i feel like i would get my ass beat! Im muscular and all but I'm no fighter.

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        • Supah sain

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        • With a baseball bat.

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        • Falcon... [spoiler]PAWNCH! [/spoiler]

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          • In my school, I'm known to be the kind, trustworthy kid. -blam!- with me though, and you have a biiiig kid on your ass. Also, I'm 5'9 in grade 8. Tallest boy in my grade, and damn strong compared to most others too

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            When I was young, I was the tiny kid, smaller than 90/100 kids my age. We moved when I was ten, and was immediately greeted by the bullies the first day at the new school. they bullied me for a month or so, and I just ran like in all the movies. But after that month. [spoiler]i went through puberty[/spoiler] In less than a year I went from the smallest kid to the largest. Once I was even in size (about 3 months in) I actually could hold my own against 2 of them, 3 I was still outnumbered. But by the end of the year, when I was at my largest, I was the bully. I didn't do anything to provoke anyone, but you provoked me you would have your nose busted. Those 3 kids feared me. They tried to make up for their past sins, but I saw through that shit. I teased them for two years or so before we moved again. Just to get a picture of how big I was, when I was 13 I was 5'11

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          • ...u got me...

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          • I had some classmates who were too dense to understand my satirical retorts to their mockery. So I used to lash out in a manner that would hurt the nearest person taunting me. The bullying stopped entirely when I grew large enough to backhand someone off their feet. Then I went back to sarcasm.

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          • With a 2 by 4

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          • Don't believe in justice . Bullies are tough and all that nonsense about standing up to us just garbage . Just keep your head down and laugh when you drive past them in your bently

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          • With a bat

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            • Lol Fresh Prince'd

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            • Oooooooh he got rekt!!!!! So mine is a shorter than this: -I am from a family that comes from asia -very old school parents -I didn't know all that many "popular" things because of them -guy starts bullying me for 2-3 years -controlled my hatred all the time -one day he wants to attack me...with a knife -then I lost it -I nearly broke his hand -the knife fell on the ground -I headbutt him -he fell -I sit on him -punched his -blam!-ing face repeatedly -broke his nose Since then I was feared and kind of a "hero" because he bullied maaaaaaaaany kids And now in highschool we laugh at these old times and are friends.Also now I am known for my lack of emotions. What happened after I broke his nose?He moved,I got suspended for a week or two

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              • With a bat

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                • Edited by a clumsy scrub: 6/13/2015 7:10:19 PM
                  This douche in my gym class. I could always tell he didnt like me. Couldnt pin-point what it was though. One day, while I was away at home. Some assholes in my class picked on some older dude that annoyed everyone. They made a game of throwing those soft balls that you use for dodgeball at him, while he was in net. The next day, I heard about it, laughed. The guy's annoying and stupid, cant help it. Then the class starts playing the same game with the soft balls and the nets. Im a good goalie, i offer to play instead of workout. Within 5 minutes, this douche comes over and says "I got the head guys" and proceeds to slam this ball in my face from maybe 3 feet away. I just looked at him, probably turned red, and said "do you want to f[i]u[/i]cking die?". He starts laughing. I walk towards him, Im about to smash him with all 4 knuckles on my right hand. The kid just back up, continuing to laugh. I yell now; "Do you want to f[u]u[/u]cking die!?". Kid keeps on laughing, but still walking backwards. By now, weve walked more than half the length of the gym. Oh buddy any second.. Teacher: Jesse! Whats going on?! I dont remember the rest. I probably went and worked out so -blam!-ing hard. The kid never tried shit again. I know he was shitting himself. I was about to wreck his scrawny ass, and none of his hockey friends did anything but watch him cower like a bit[i]ch[/i].. Btw this is a grade 12 gym class, mixed with boys and girls. Mawfuggah tried to humiliate me in front several sexy ladies. I think it backfired hard. #SuccessfulCounterBullying

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                • Step one: be clever, make things they say seem dumb. Agree with them, laugh at yourself when they make fun of you once in a while, nobody is perfect. If they are trying to humiliate you in front of people, you need to humiliate him almost equally. "Why are you so angry? What did your parents do to you?" If you want to fight and get it over with. "I know im not pretty, but youre no model either, bud" good response if you are called ugly, unless the dude has lots of hot bitchxes.. A simple "is that so?" Can counter a lot, and shows some confidence, which bullies hate. For me (Canadian), I say "yeah, eh?" with a smile. Step two: sarcasm. Youll need plenty of it. Step three: get ready to have your ass kicked, be ready to fight. Go down swingin' or theyll come back for sure. Note: I never made it to step three, kids in my high school wouldnt try it, I swear. I worked out a lot from grade 10-12, as well as my repeat of grade 12 lol Alternatively: Bottle up all the rage this bully induces, then just let it loose one day. When he pushes you on the wrong day, you wont be able to stop it. Try to fight him on the spot. Ask him how bad he wants to get hurt. Walk right up to him, and punch him in the face. Do it twice, maybe three times. If its a fight, keep going. If he starts swinging back, theres nothing you can do to stop it except fight. Go until you win or lose, or someone breaks up the fight. Bullies dont usually like resistance. Put up a serious defense, make bullying you harder than its worth, or just work out like crazy, nobody screws with a ripped guy, not usually anyways.

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                • With a sock full of nickels

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                • Correct everything he says and if he tries something... punch him or threaten him. Make him your bitch

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                  • Find out who else they bully gather them all together and Confront them, Tell them if you stand together it will stop. Find the bully and tell him if he/she touches any of you he will get beat up by all of you at once. bullies don't like numbers, if any does happen to one of you find the bully and rush them. Better to live a day as a lion than a lifetime as a sheep!

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                  • Edited by Python824: 6/13/2015 4:05:52 AM
                    I got the size and strength. My answer is simple: I kick their ass.

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