[i]for anyone who is looking for a way to meet lots of women and make friends or more, check this out[/i] [i]I know this is off topic, but I felt like sharing.[/i] [spoiler]This will work for almost anyone Go places with friends who are popular and have lots of lady friends. Like a house party or a bar.. Any place where girls are. The key here is they know lots of girls and can introduce you to them so you have an easy excuse to talk to them. Wear something nice that says you have a job and possibly some money - women are attracted to success Watch your posture. 90% of what you say isn't coming out of your mouth. No slouching, make eye contact, smile, pay attention to them. LISTEN to them so you can respond. Before you go, make a list of topics to talk about so you have something to say. Here are the #1 and 2 things I start a conversation with: Where are you from? What do you do? Make sure she goes into detail about what she does for what I'm gonna tell you to say Learn her name and use it as you're talking to her. Don't forget her name - very important Control the conversation by asking questions and letting them do the talking. Don't say a whole lot, just listen, smile. Let her talk for as long as it takes for you to get enough info about what she does. Get her opinion on something Disagree with her If she starts asking questions about you then you then you know she has interest in you. Keep your answers somewhat short but to the point. Don't lie Now get out of the conversation. Say I have to go to the bathroom or something. REPEAT THESE STEPS WITH AS MANY GIRLS AS POSSIBLE (You want the women around you to see that you're talking to many girls.. It shows confidence and that other girls have interest on you - this is a very effective trick) Now it's time to either close the deal or get a lead for later After talking to the women, you should have an idea which one you like the most, which ones might like you, which ones to stay away from. Unlock your phone, add new contact, put the name of the girl you want most, hand her your phone. Assume the close. Have a smile on your face. Be bold. You're gonna get that number. Memorize this next part. This is where u close the deal 90% of the time If she says no ask her why? Keep smiling Whatever she says just say this: "I understand that you (insert whatever she says) I would probably feel the same way if I was in your shoes." "JUST SO YOU KNOW" (don't forget to say that) "I'm not getting your number just because I think you're the most beautiful thing I've seen in a long time, I'm getting it because you're different from all the other girls here. You aren't one of those girls who sit around and expect to be handed something, you get off your ass and go get it. I respect that about you because that is so rare..." "ARE YOU WITH ME SO FAR?" (Make sure you ask that because you want to make sure she understands that you are getting her number for something other than what she's used to) She will answer yes to your question Then you say "great, now put your number in my phone pretty please :)" If she still says no then you say something like "Well if you think I'm gonna give up before you get to know me, you're wrong. I think you're fantastic and just so you know I'm going to get your number eventually so you can just give it to me now or later. So what's it gonna be? Now or later?" (At this point even if you don't get her number then she will see that you don't give up easily. Some girls like it when a man goes after what he wants. You now at least have her respect and you might get it later) If you didn't get her number, great try this approach with one of the other girls you talked to If you did get her number, great try this approach with one of the other girls you talked to This is a numbers game. Get as many as you can. If you like this and want to know what to do next then comment :) Good luck[/spoiler] [i]this is my advice. Although it seems kind of bad, I feel like it is a good way to get results. Tell me what you think [/i]