Fact: Though you may be nice to her, you're fat/skinny as shit, socially awkward, acne-ridden, and flat out ugly
If you're a normal looking guy, you have to grow an assertive personality. Stop acting like a socially awkward faggot afraid to say something that may upset her for a few seconds. Women like to tease and be teased. Have an interesting personality and relationship, enough with this nice guy bullshit. Women literally do not want a socially awkward nice guy over a assertive, energetic dominant one. Please stop with your awkward faggot-inducing bullshit.
Signed,
The Socialist Jew.
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Sounds like you're talking to yourself... Aww bby is k, maybe one day you'll get laid. :)
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Guys prefer jerking off to girls
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2 Replies[quote]Fact: Girls prefer jerks to nice guys[/quote] Women prefer nice guys but girls are a different story
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A few years back my friends and I have tested many of these theories on real women in college, in clubs/bars, shopping, parties, gym etc.. These are the results: 1. Location is key (what will work on a girl grom Cali will not work on a girl from NYC) 2. You don't need to be attractive but you do need to be presentable and clean. 3. You don't have to be an ignorant jerk. Many guys get this confused with humor. 4. The nice guy (church guy) routine really only works with innocent girls (church girl) 5. You need confidence, witt, self respect, and humor 6. Money always helps, but isn't necessary 7. Smile, stand upright, speak loudly/distinctly, and have manners 8. Smile/laugh and know how to bring those positive vibes to your "target" as well 9. ALWAYS leave your "target" guessing... Sort of become mysterious.. Tell them a little, but not everything 10. Dogs are the best ice breakers in public places
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What if I'm only as skinny as shit and socially awkward? [spoiler]And some acne...[/spoiler]
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4 RepliesNot true. I never get anywhere with women, and I'm a complete asshole.
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I can almost [i]taste[/i] the fedora...
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1 ReplyKate Beckinsale prefers me
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Oh jeezzz...
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1 ReplyHow old are these "women" you speak of?
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3 RepliesGirls like assholes, women like real men. There is a clear distinction.
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4 RepliesI agree with you except the word "jerks" in the subject line, I think most women want a confident man who will take charge but not in an obnoxious or mean way. To guys afraid to talk to girls that often seems like jerks, like "I have gazed upon her from afar for six months she is a special lady and this jerk has his hand on her waist in 5 minutes how dare he."
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31 RepliesI prefer nice guys
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51 RepliesWrong, cause I'm a girl and this is not true for me.
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Not all of them
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Edited by Bloom Unknown : 5/3/2015 6:01:19 AMI was going to come on here and disagree, that you need to treat a women right most of the time, which is true but not on topic. So yeah, you nailed it. [spoiler]I don't think what the OP describes is a jerk, more like a playful personality. You have to genuinely care about a person, but don't be so scared of offending someone that you sacrifice your entire personality. It's a balance.[/spoiler]
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Edited by Deleted: 5/3/2015 5:49:06 AMNot true, I fell for an ugly skinny kid who does nothing but plays video games and didn't even learn how to do laundry until he was 18. But you know what? He turned into an abusive -blam!-ing asshole and now I'm only stuck with him because I love him. I guess I can't speak for most women, but I don't give a damn about looks, I just want someone who will treat me well.
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Confidence and assertiveness aren't the same as being a jerk. I'm a pretty cocky guy (I sometimes cross into the jerk area). But honestly you need to have confidence to pick up a girl. It's not hard. Just talk and flirt and it'll be easy to tell pretty quickly if it's mutual.
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Stereotypical jerks have more confidence than stereotypical nice guys. Stereotypical straight women like confident guys. Also, if I'm going to choose between someone who is lacks confidence and another that is sure in themselves, I'll probably pick the person who can respect themselves through confidence.
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What if I'm a socially awkward jerk?
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2 Replies[quote]Fact: Women Prefer to jerk nice guys[/quote] Fix'd
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1 ReplyI've just recently seemed to realize this and am growing up to be one on the very best jerks in the kanto region
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Hah Maybe just all the girls you've met. I love my nice, socially-awkward, nerd boyfriend :)
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Don't mistake being a jerk for being confident. Girls like confidence. Just so happens that many jerks are confident, but not all confident people are jerks.
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I agree. We need more nudity in the society ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
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Ha have mastered both extremes but have decided to go with the awkward one. If played right you can intrigue women enough with mystery to start up a conversation with ease.