clarifying for some people:
my intentions are not sexual for this girl, cause if i need to i can start a diy project
so a while ago i met this 13 year old girl
I'm 16 so the moral me said don't be a weirdo but the lonely depressed psycho me says hey be nice to this girl and maybe you get to grease her gears in the future
a month passes by and we become best friends due to being similar and having fun with each other by playing games ,watching movies and other stuff
so i kept calling her cute for the last week and i just asked her out for kicks and she is on the other side of the country right now so I've asked her to spend spring break with me in California
she said yea to me for the dating part and not the California part because her mom would not approve of our relationship and her mom does not approve of boys normally
so then I my sis took my phone one-day and found out about all this and is blackmailing me and i said no to her request
she told her friend about all this and now everyone within my school is now calling me PEDO
so am i a weirdo creep because i like and date this 13 year old girl who is funny cute and nice to me?
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3 RepliesEdited by dead mans: 3/12/2015 11:52:22 PMWelcome to the age were 3 years is a big difference. My friend just moved in with a woman thats 16 years older than him, we think hes weird but theres nothing wrong with it because hes 24 he can do what he wants. Reality check though: shes 13, shes gonna change how she feels about everything over the next 5 - 10 years. Not to be negative but the relationship is not gonna last, a friendship MIGHT but probably not given the distance. That said It would be wrong to sleep with her anyway, its harmless to be friends and your peers are immature and will mock anyone for anything. My personal advice: dont date anyone younger than you, it really sucks being the mature one all the time. And dont date right now anyway, you dont know who your gonna be in 5 years so whats the point? If you just wana get laid thats a different story, but i will tell you this: theres a rumor on the internet that if you stay a virgin till you're 30 you become a wizard.
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2 RepliesEdited by Gets765: 3/12/2015 12:31:19 PMWell if she were a year younger id say that you are a pedo, but since she is 13 and your only 16 i guess its okay, but generally until booth people are over 18 it's probably not a good idea to be dating someone who is 2-3 years younger than you
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3 years younger? Not a pedo
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Dude when adults date they usually aren't the same age, most of the time the guys are older. My parents are 5 years apart
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3 RepliesIf their age is on the clock, they're old enough for the cock:
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6 RepliesEdited by Syb3rwulf: 3/12/2015 7:21:11 PMNo! There should be no age restrictions on when 2 people fall in love! Goddam FBI interfering in my relationships.
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1 ReplyEdited by FLYING H: 3/15/2015 2:17:50 PMNope, go for it if she likes u to then theres no problem. Just wait for her to hit the right age before anything sexual. Or else batman will come for u.
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No this isn't natural, you deserve to be castrated.
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If it was a 23 ye old dating a 20 year old no one would care, just ignore them. If she makes you happy, why not?
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It maybe a little unorthodox right now, but image 10 years later. It's not that odd seeing two adults together that are only three years apart so just wait
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2 RepliesEdited by MR DEATHBOT: 3/12/2015 12:54:54 PMI violated the Cod and Carrots and was met with Ninja Hot Sauce.
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1 ReplyThe whole scenario is a bit weird but I understand where you're coming from. I "dated" an 8th grader when I was freshman because we both liked each other for a bit but it was never really a thing between us. But I'd say you should have reached out to anyone in your age range and in your locale before you go for 13 year old's on the internet like seriously bro Chris Hansen is about to walk up to you and ask you to have a seat.
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Your 16 so I personally don't really see a problem. Then again that's just me.
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1 ReplyWell my dad is 39 and my mom is 36 so if your both over 18 it should be fine and if you both under 18 and 3 year difference I think might be okay I'm not sure
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1 ReplyThat's like a 3 year old dating a newborn
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3 RepliesDon't shoot up school no matter how tempting it is.
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Ehh, too young. Wait 4 years. Also, don't be creeping on her once you pass 18 and she's still a minor.
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Kick your sisters ass
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I used to like my best bros sister and she was just about a year younger then me, you good homie.
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Nah but if u were 24+ you would be a pedo. Tell them dating a girl that is 3 years younger then you is not being a pedo. I've seen way bigger age differences in relationships
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1 ReplyLol you're 16 homie. No worries. UNLESS she legit looks like a little kid
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1 ReplyYour not no, is it would for a 26 year old to marry a 23 year old ? Don't give a crap about what others say an less you plan on FING her at 18 when she's 15 then I dunno if anything wait till at least 17 when you hit 18+ but then again I am 14 what do I know
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1 ReplyDidn't even read it all only saw the ages pedo by most state laws very pedo doesn't matter how old the guy is or the girl is if they r under age they are underage
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If they can't dial 999, then I'm pretty sure you're fine.
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5 Replies13-16 is a [b]massive[/b] maturity gap man.