While joking...I know some of my friends have gotten into really bad relationships because they hid the fact they are serious gamers...If it's a quality that defines you (as long as healthily balanced with other aspects of life) then you should be looking for the same in a potential partner. My gf and I are both avid gamers, have known from the start of our relationship (first year was weekends of movies, pizza, and Champions of Norrath on PS2). Hiding a quality of your life that is actually important leads to a bad relationship starting with deceit. Yes it may be hard to find someone who partakes in the same vices, but if you do it makes for a wonderful life...I mean, as long as the house is clean and I take the dog out my girlfriend has no problem with me playing video games ALL weekend...cuz she's doing the same : )