I am honestly amazed just how many members are finding the idea of a family using their personal and private hot tub partially clothed to be so out of the ordinary (or to repeat a term that has been frequently used, "weird"). I guess that puritanical standards are more deeply embedded in our culture than I imagined. I would have thought, that as the resident "old man" that I would be more likely to have so-called "old-fashioned" standards or be somewhat prudish on the matter. Especially when I see the ease of which people in this community casually toss around phrases like "let's bang" or "send me nudes" which are both sexual in nature, but a family soaking in a spa is non-sexual. I can say that in Europe, where topless beaches are the standard (yes, even for teens!) or in parts of Asia, where communal bathing is a part of the culture, nudity and sexuality are sometimes intertwined, but there are clear situations where nudity is NOT sexual in any way. Maybe it's the time zone. I'm not telling anyone that they are "wrong" for thinking the way that they do, I am saying that I didn't expect to see so many who held that particular view. I've learned something today.