I got my current girlfriend prego when I was 19 (two years ago). It was pretty shocking. Nothing really brings me down or makes me negative about things, so I guess I would say my reaction and feelings weren't normal. Get used to people telling you what you need to do and you're in over your head or whatever. It drove me nuts. I'm sorry, but I can not tell you about having the baby or the experience of it. My baby died in my girlfriend when she was about 4 months in. Goodluck.