I have to say I always worry about what will happen if I do anything, but I think you may have gone too far. And dont worry that love/lust/attaraction is selfish. Think of it this way: You are meant to have feelings for certain people (be it the opposite sex or not) and so revel in it. Who cares if it is selfish. Just make sure you dont abuse (physically, mentally or emotionally) people along the way, and everything should be too bad. Oh and if you are careful you dont have to worry too much about unwanted pregnancies and STIs. Of course this is me talking with no experience what so ever, so feel free to ignore me. Oh and whats with all the clamidia references? [Edited on 3/2/2005 2:47:05 AM]