[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] tex mex matt I'm having trouble with a girl right now, shes so confusing its not even funny, and we have been talking for like a year now and I still have no idea what shes thinking, so I have jsut recently given up.[/quote] Just ask her. Though there might be some sort of "dramatic" air that comes with asking for desires of intimacy, most people can just brush it off in a mature fashion. It won't be the end of the world. You won't stay up all night crying. You won't be laughed at publicly (more than you already are).