[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] oaklandp8ntbalr [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Xanarxses [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] oaklandp8ntbalr it's all confidence. You only get confidence by trusting yourself. You can't trust yourself if you aren't happy with yourself. Go look in the mirror. Are you happy with the person you are? Are you comfortable with your appearance? Knowing this forum, you probably are not. So go do something about it. Dress differently. Pick a sport. Play the guitar. Work out.[/quote] What does appearance have to do with playing the guitar?[/quote] Self-image.[/quote] I don't get it.[/quote] It's how you view yourself. If you have a skill that you're proud of, you will look in the mirror and be happy, and therefore carry yourself with confidence. (This is not focused at you, just speaking generally here) If you're ashamed of how you think you appear to other people, then you need to change your appearance and your self-image. [Edited on 10.05.2012 9:29 AM PDT]