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7/10/2005 5:40:09 PM
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girl help?
k theres a girl in my school whos really hot were friends but i wanna ask her out wat should i say? i think she has a boyfriend but i havnt seen her for a whole year hopefully this year we can get closer.what should i say?
[Edited on 7/10/2005]
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dont mention getting help from bungie.net and just hang out/chill someplace and talk.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Man of halo i think she kinda likes me to so ill ask her to the movies sometime or sumthin[/quote] ADVICE: Don't just ask her to go on a private date immediately. Take out your whole group. Let her get really comfortable around you before you do that. I know guys- when they see a movie with a chick, they'd wanna hug, kiss, lay on you... or other things... *clears throat*. Anyway, do you wanna get thid relationship going slow or quickly, (then I'll judge you...)
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Don't worry about her. If she likes you, just be real smoothe about it. Pull a Han Solo perhaps. The key is to be smoothe. While you're waiting for her to admit her feelings, play some Nintindo DS. It'll be great. Trust me.
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i think she kinda likes me to so ill ask her to the movies sometime or sumthin
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*scratches head*
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One of these again? You've gotta be fsking kidding me.
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*shakes head*
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*knods agreeingly*
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Just freaking find a cliff and jump! All will become clear if you listen to me.
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no i didnt have my hands in my pants!
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???????? WTF???????
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Nvm [Edited on 7/10/2005]
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just act pathethic and sad and say you are suicidal that shall work [
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I understand, Sniper.
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True, I just dont want a friendship to be ruined because he wanted to take it further you know. If he feels its right, then that is great go for it. If he has any hesitation then I would suggest he holds off. Otherwise irreparable damage may be done. To the thread starter: If you havent talked for a year, dont rush blindly. Just take it slow, catch up and see if the feelings are still there. Eventually you will get a chance to just ask her how she feels about a relationship with you. Chances are, you will get a straight forward answer, then things are pretty clear as to what you should do from that point.
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Yeah, what you're saying IS right, mad sniper, but this is like an "introduction". If he has feelings and he wants to express it, let him be. If someting bad happens, he should learn from his mistakes. You can't just listen to people who always say "That's bad; never do it". They don't know. They have to learn. I did. You did. They will understand from their own experience.
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My personal opinion is if you are under 19, then you really shouldnt even worry about a girlfriend right now. If you so insist though, I suggest you think wisely before you make any attempts at dating a friend. Considering she may treat you "special" she may not actually have true feelings for you. I many a time have made mistakes because I thought a girl liked me becasue of how she acted around me. Trust me, you should just be friends. Besides like most relationships it will end up with a break up. Then you realize that you lost a really good friend as well. (Happened to me as well). Your better of with friends anyways.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Arcam 043 Okay, Arcam 043 to help with relationships... after all, I'm a girl, and I know how I like to be approached. First, if you haven't seen her for a LONG time, but you wanna get together again- start out small. Ask her what she has been doing over the time, did she have fun, are you coming back soon, etc. Just start out with the basic "welcome" stuff. Second, interact a bit more. Ask if yous wanna go out to the movies or a skate park with a whole big group of mates. If you do that, my word of advice is that you spend time with her, but not too much. It'll annoy her. Third, if she talks to you alot, says hello when you walk by first, and calls you for things, that means she's gotten close. This is the time to ask. But explain your feelings first. Don't just scream out "can you go out with me?". No. Girls like explanations before the question; it keeps their ears open. Oh, and make sure that you guys are alone somewhere, or somewhere peaceful, like the beach or someting. If she says YES, your first mission is complete. Now, your second mission you ask? 'Find out the things she likes'. Maybe she likes horseriding, jet skiing, snowboarding... (wait, I like those sports. hehe.) But if she does like them, or wants to try them, take her out. Even if you don't like it and she does, remember; you're doing something for her, out of the goodness of your heart. If she understands this, she'd wanna get closer because she trusts you. Okay, if she says NO, she has to explain herself. Now, if she has a boyfriend, or just isn't ready for a relationship, accept that, smile, and be happy that you at least have a friendship. Um, that's all I can help with right now. If your mission is completed, message me if you need more help. I'll be happy to. I always help out people with relationships. If anyone else needs help, just message me ALL the details... and right vocabulary. (I don't read "mumble") Good luck. You asked for help. I gave. Arcam 043 [/quote] Or you could just ask if her that if you told her she had a nice body would she hold it against you.
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Okay, Arcam 043 to help with relationships... after all, I'm a girl, and I know how I like to be approached. First, if you haven't seen her for a LONG time, but you wanna get together again- start out small. Ask her what she has been doing over the time, did she have fun, are you coming back soon, etc. Just start out with the basic "welcome" stuff. Second, interact a bit more. Ask if yous wanna go out to the movies or a skate park with a whole big group of mates. If you do that, my word of advice is that you spend time with her, but not too much. It'll annoy her. Third, if she talks to you alot, says hello when you walk by first, and calls you for things, that means she's gotten close. This is the time to ask. But explain your feelings first. Don't just scream out "can you go out with me?". No. Girls like explanations before the question; it keeps their ears open. Oh, and make sure that you guys are alone somewhere, or somewhere peaceful, like the beach or someting. If she says YES, your first mission is complete. Now, your second mission you ask? 'Find out the things she likes'. Maybe she likes horseriding, jet skiing, snowboarding... (wait, I like those sports. hehe.) But if she does like them, or wants to try them, take her out. Even if you don't like it and she does, remember; you're doing something for her, out of the goodness of your heart. If she understands this, she'd wanna get closer because she trusts you. Okay, if she says NO, she has to explain herself. Now, if she has a boyfriend, or just isn't ready for a relationship, accept that, smile, and be happy that you at least have a friendship. Um, that's all I can help with right now. If your mission is completed, message me if you need more help. I'll be happy to. I always help out people with relationships. If anyone else needs help, just message me ALL the details... and right vocabulary. (I don't read "mumble") Good luck. You asked for help. I gave. Arcam 043
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There are probably cliffs somewhere. Jump off one of them without a parachute. You will receive your answer on the way down.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] death incarneate If you havent seen her in a year then you probablyshluodn't ask her out.[/quote] That's my advice.
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1 Buy a gun 2 Kill the boyfriend 3 catch her on the rebound It's so easy (not responsible for homicide charges)
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Man of halo k theres a girl in my school whos really hot were friends but i wanna ask her out wat should i say? i think she has a boyfriend but i havnt seen her for a whole year hopefully this year we can get closer.what should i say?[/quote] "I dont like sand, its rough and irritating, unlike you, you are so smooth."
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If you havent seen her in a year then you probablyshluodn't ask her out.
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ok, in the light of everybody's crap advice in this thread, i'll give you: [url=http://www.laddertheory.com]how women work.[/url] [Edited on 7/10/2005]
