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Edited by LilBlkCloud: 10/4/2015 6:56:32 PM
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Group stopped inviting me after they found out I'm black.

Recently met a really cool group of people and had a great night playing Destiny with them, but right after they saw a photo of me they stopped sending the invites and responding to my messages. I guess I should've known when one of them said "Awww, nig-tits" when he died in Crucible. Racists are the lowest. I can't imagine The Traveler would choose any racist to defend mankind. EDIT: What an interesting thread this has been! It's very polarized. First you have the good folks offering their sympathies, then you have the good folks sending me private messages offering sympathies and group/clan invites. I'm so grateful for them. Then you have the people who say I'm a liar. Why? Because, they ask, "Why would you randomly send your photo to people you just met? You're a liar." This outlook strikes me as odd because... 1) My original post doesn't say I randomly sent them a photo. These people assume this was the case. Why do they assume this was the case? Because they want to use it as ammunition to call me a liar. 2) My original post says the group stopped inviting me after they saw a picture of me. Period. I didn't say how or why they saw the picture, only that they saw it. 3) The truth is, they saw the picture of me because after a good 5 hours of intense and hilarious gaming, they figured we should all keep in touch. We exchanged kik usernames and I joined their Facebook group for their clan. And guess what? These social networking apps involve pictures. For those asking how they didn't know I was black by listening to me, I truly feel bad for you. Because one's skin color does not predispose them to a certain vernacular or method of speech. Period. I speak English. Boring old English. It's a language free for anyone to speak; it is not reserved for white people, so saying someone "sounds white" is catastrophically ignorant. And stupid. Anyway, this has been educational. The short of it is this: there are two sides. You have the enlightened folk who have no hatred in their hearts. Then you have the hateful folks who will do or say or claim anything to support their hatred. Here in this thread their primary ammunition is to try to discredit my very simple story and brand me a liar. I wish it was a lie, but it's not. Communities need to be made aware when hate slinks around in the dark, masquerading as light. This thread has certainly helped bring them out of hiding, and for that, true Guardians should be thankful. We should know who the agents of Darkness are among us. I /salute the good folks among you. My bow and hunter abilities are forever yours.
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  • What is the reason to post this? What does people being assholes make you turn it into a race thing. So this is how all of this gets perpetuated. The world is not a nice place. It is full of lots of good and bad people. I'm sick and tired of anyone who gets there paper thin skin hurt to all of a sudden throw dam race card. Man up!!!!!!

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    • As much as I think its fake Just tell them to -blam!- off

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    • I was gonna say that they probably didnt invite you after saying, "nig-tits." And realized that they were playing with a person of color and made it incredibly awkard. But the fact they all stopped talking to you either means they all love saying, "nig-tits" and didnt want you to be offended or they are just racists. Curious though, did they kick you from the kik group and have you ever tried contacting them?

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    • The only thing that makes it questionable is they all did it. That would make rather.......interesting odds.

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      • Photos or it didn't happen. Just doing my part to collect evidence before reaching a verdict. Have a good day, OP. ;)

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      • That /s

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      • Edited by WingedAshur6: 10/6/2015 5:45:51 PM
        I've had similar experiences. Keep on keeping on and you'll find that group that is just right for you!

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      • No joke someone got so salty at my friend and I after we were playing rumble and the guy was loosing. He sent my friend a message and called him a "f*ggot n*gger slave" He then proceeded to say that he's white, therefore he's better than us. Tbh it was hilarious at how much of a racist he was, we weren't offended, it just seems too comical to be that racist.

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      • Always the race card with some people. Have you ever thought its the way you act or talk?

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        • Did they say it was because you're black, or did you assume that? I'm assuming that you assumed that, therefore you are racist

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        • a few of my clan members thought I was black at first because of the sound of my voice. then one finally asked, in a non-offensive way. they were shocked to find out I'm white/asian -,o

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        • Sorry bro but I call bullshit.

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          • Making these threads is the easiest way to play spot the racist. That or closet racist with underlaying tones of bigotry. Uh oh, here come the pitchforks. Got to go now, bye!

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            • It's 2015. I really didn't think race would still be an issue by now. Civil rights leaders are probably turning in their graves.

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            • Damn rednecks

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              • People pointlessly trying to discredit the author is exactly the reason why we need to have a conversation about race in America.

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              • Those people rude, mean, and racist. What was the point? If you were fun to play with, why would it matter? It doesn't matter to me.

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              • People really need to quit with racial hate. No one can control what color you are born. I didn't choose to be white, but I am. That doesn't make me better than someone of a different color. Instead of judging someone by the color of their skin, judge someone based on personality and character. There are good AND bad in all races. This is coming from a guy in Tennessee.

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              • Psst...you trynna give us their names?It could be....fun

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              • Ha.

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              • Could care less where you're from, or the color of your skin. I'll play with whoever. That being said, I am getting tired of hearing people scream racism and no one bats an eye when white people get treated like shit.

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                • Wait? The world has racist??? Man get over it and tuffin up! Complaining bout some shit like this lol shrug that BS off and keep it moving. There are Ssooo many minorities that get discriminated out of so much more. Like JOBS, HOMES, SCHOOLS... But here is yo ass, bitching bout some kids that won't let you play with them...

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                • Edited by Pooch0927: 10/5/2015 5:04:55 AM
                  Could not stop laughing when I read the "nigtits" part lmao. But other than that yea just find another group thats cool and chill. Don't really run into people being racist online but I guess once in a while you run into those douchbags

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                • Screw those losers. At least you saw their true colors in an environment you can slam the door in their small-minded faces. There are thousands of Destiny players out there willing to take up arms with you, best of luck fellow guardian. Stay strong and keep doing what you love!

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                • They have the right to not play with you. I agree, the color of ones skin should not be a factor in determining who to play with. It is a video game; who cares what others look like. But again, it's their decision. And if they, too, had a good time, then it's their loss as well. But you can't just assume the feeling was mutual. There have been many people I played with, yet ignore their invites and messages. Doesn't mean I didn't enjoy playing with them; just means they didn't make the cut to my friends list and/or I'm too busy to be bothered responding.

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                • Just stop being black, problem solved.

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