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Edited by brOwniiez: 1/18/2015 7:54:42 AM
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Break Up and Keep Playing or ... NEED ADVICE

So my girlfriend gets pissed when I come home from work and play until I gotta go to work the next morning... So I don't sleep anymore at all, I really don't wanna miss out on any Loot, so I spend all my hours spare grinding Phogoth strike over and over... But I need advice she seems pretty pissed lately and acting as if I must choose between her and work or Destiny! It's pretty selfish of her IMO. I don't know if to break up with my girlfriend or give up playing for a few months.... Please reply with some advice fellow Guardians! Thanks

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  • Man...your level 32. You don't need to be grinding at all. Only days you should be grinding is Tuesday to knock out the raid, nightfall and weekly.

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  • Try to get her to enjoy Destiny so you guys could play together.

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    • A video game should not jeopardize your health or relationships with friends, family, or significant other. It's just a game. It's not real and nothing you do in it will matter in less than a year. She's a real person with real feelings. If you won't give her the attention she needs, somebody else will. If you can be okay with throwing away a person who cares about you for a video game, especially one so clearly plagued by lies, false advertisement, and giving you less for your money than any other game has in recent history, then let her leave. I think about Destiny like this: Destiny sounds like a stripper name and like a stripper, Destiny will take your money, but never let you f-ck her. A girlfriend or wife will suck and f-ck you for free.

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      • Drop the b!tch

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      • Some Super Good Advice?

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      • Lol troll

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        Reach level 32 quickly then take a break

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      • It sounds like you've gotten into an unhealthy habit there. Speaking as a guy who have tried a lifestyle similar to this, it will damage not only your own health but your relations to other people. From what you write in your post, your girlfriend is genuinely worried about you. The least you should do is put down the controller, switch off the tv and talk about it. If you think she is being unreasonable, ask why she feels that way. Maybe you discover that your girlfriend will be understanding and accept you spending a few hours playing each night, as long as you spend some time with her too. Just a friendly tip: people around you notice changes in your behavior. Much more so than you do yourself. And when you play a videogame day and night, every free hour of your day, you eventually change a lot. So if people around you start to sound worried about you, it's time to take a critical look at yourself and the choices you make.

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      • Get a grip

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      • Dude, please tell me this is a BS post. If you even have to ask this question you deserve to be single and without pu $$ y the rest of your life.

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      • I have a Mrs and 2 kids at home. Just balance your time, I spend a few hours with them after work, then play. Don't ignore the woman who loves you for a game, there's 24 hours in a day, just give her a few of them

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      • Most important thing in life is your self. Before people start saying what about family blah blah blah. With out good health or being alive you could not experience or enjoy other things. I say take care of your sleeping habit first. You need to sleep. Your body will slowly shut down (maybe in a harmful way) and you will pass out with no choice. Your body will give up. From this point I'd give games a break but you should keep your job. I doubt your girlfriend is upset about [b][i]just[/i][/b] the job but probsbly like you mention the job/game combo. As tough as you think you might be, or how much or how long you can do things alone, you will need a companion. Life brings them into our lives everyday but the importsnt ones are the ones that stick. If you have feelings for this girl tell her how you feel, what your going through and that maybe she can help you out. Chances are your girl is feeling neglected and unloved based on the fact that you spend 50% of your time working and 50% or your time playing games. Everything in moderation my friend. Best wishes.

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      • What are you thinking!!!!!. Are you mad, crazy or just so lost in your stupidity that you would risk a relationship with your one and only true love????. Get rid of her now.

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        • Drop the game, it's a fluke anyways. People are what's real,..not the train wreck of a game. Man trust me, when you finally get that 31, when you finally get that story done, when you finally beat the raid,....you'll realize guess what? I have nothing notable to even show for the efforts, it just sends you right back onto the hamster wheel. Plus destiny doesn't give blow jobs.

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        • Edited by aceebro: 1/19/2015 8:38:43 AM
          Do what you want. If you do break up with her over a game though, realize you've lost the privilege to whine about being lonely for pretty much all eternity though.

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        • If you need advice about this topic you probably should just keep playing because social relationships are not ever going to work out for you.

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        • "SEND HER HOME CRYING!" - Lord Shaxx

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          • Good fight

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            • Is she fat

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            • I think that I know, that you know, that this is a stupid question.

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            • Finger the fuk outa her.

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            • Edited by xVIPERxTRIXTAx: 1/19/2015 6:28:11 AM
              Gr8 b8 m8 I r8 8/8

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            • Play the game with her, have fun together on it

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            • Lmfao everyone took the b8. "Grinding phogoth over and over." I r8 8/8 m8

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              • Y the hell would u grind phogoth? What lvl is that strike again? How the hell do u think ur gonna get epic gear from that strike?

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                • congradation(shut up about my spelling meg) from reading the comments below you probebly screwed yourself over from smashing her so go watch the video mememe

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