I still think she's cray cray. I'd say get a friendship happening and if it develops into something more, try it out without really trying it out. Go on a date without dating. That sort of thing. You don't need to date people to make them happy. Also, what you said about the whole "She been telling herself her whole life that it's not her fault. People keep leaving and it's not her fault." makes so much sense. She has such a high opinion of herself it's driving me mad. "I mean, look at Jack and then look at me." Who says shit like that?