I think the problem is the upload speed that AT&T/Frontier gives us. I was watching my routers live bandwidth chart while walking around the tower and every time the "connecting to destiny servers" bar came up on the bottom I would see the upload bandwidth being maxed out. I have around 400kbps upload. So there are only two solutions here. Either the Destiny team figures out a way to minimize the uploads or we are forced to get better internet with a higher upload speed.