You need to be willing to give it everything you s for and nothing all the same as to know exactly what you want, and have the heart to give up on ever giving it. That’s my trick for manifestation, I had no clue how strong that thing is either, manifestation. You’ll be shocked if you’re open to trying that method, most important thing is being a man who knows what they want and need though and holding higher standards THAT YOU YOURSELF DESERVE. You need to pick a ride or die woman who isn’t messing around because if it’s not for eternity you will be disappointed every time at every breakup. WORK ON YOURSELF AND BE A MAN OF ACTION WITH GOALS YOU ACHIEVE! Most importantly, get therapy and fix all your crap and have an amazing, supportive, inspiring, empowering friend group of REAL people who are incredibly strong, smart, and loving fully. You don’t want to surround yourself with losers and be a weaker man, because it all starts with you as an individual and then becomes what you have to offer as all your value is linked to your effectiveness AS A MAN WITH PURPOSE. Nothing breeds more attraction than a guy who will do whatever it takes to achieve what he yearns for, especially if he’s honorable, INSANELY HUMBLE DONT EVEN TRY A RELATIONSHIP IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS AND ALWAYS ARE RIGHT YOULL BECOME MORE BITTER QUICKLY, and put her first because she is the one. If she isn’t the one and you have to play the field don’t be scared of learning from that and always be safe. Never ever fight for someone you’d never willingly die for. The name of the game with a real relationship and all of them is “Legacy.” If your friends, and especially your partner are losers and chumps who won’t be brutally sobbed over when they are gone who keep this world a better, progressing, happier, stronger, greater place, you gotta raise your bar. It’s all about value that you serve to everyone and everything when you break it down, and if you cannot be humble, respectful, empathetic, incredibly patient, FORGIVING, and sacrifice and compromise all the time for them it means they’re not worth it and you’ve got to try harder starting from square 1 as I said initially, brother. It’s a lot, I’m sorry it’s jumbled, but this is what it takes and what you need to understand to really make it happen. Also get some thick skin and a sense of humor without being a jerk, but if you’re gonna be a jerk do that in taste and respect the boundaries ALWAYS. No means no, also if you know you can be funny and thoughtful DO IT!