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4/28/2017 6:56:42 PM
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You're in the right, and I'm surprised you haven't gone through his shit yet. It's a woman's right of passage.
I'm all for privacy, but only when trust is also involved.
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Exactly and it's not like I'm violating his things. If I don't like someone he's talking to for a good solid reason I wouldn't want him talking to them and he doesn't understand that. I've had countless people flirting with him over game chat in games and he just soaks up the attention and loves it. I don't understand how it's not my business and I'm at a crossroad because he's hiding everything from me and always wanting his space 😕
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You guys sound young. He's got a good thing in having a woman that doesn't go through his shit. That's rare. But, it sounds like he's abusing that privelege, and you might want to set some boundaries. Reasonable ones. If it doesn't work, then it doesn't work and you move on. At least it's three years. Don't let it be 10. Amd I'm saying all of this because I was a shit head to someone like this before and lost them over it. Hard lessons are hard learned.
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I want things to work out but he constantly complains that I don't let him have female friends. Which he has more thank he thinks and even though I don't like one of them he doesn't respect that and basically chooses other people over me. I'm just at a loss and I know coming on here was stupid and mostly immature but I just wanted to get a point across that there's no trust in a relationship if I can't know who his talking to or what he's doing.
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You know, that trust (should) go both ways? If you can't trust him to do the right thing, then there is either a serious problem with the relationship, or trust issues in general with you.
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I do have major trust issues because of some of the things he has done in the past. Which were not my fault. I'm not going to lie and say my relationship is golden because I've been through shit to get where I am; but anyone in a relationship can have their doubts about the other for whatever reason. At this point I'm pretty confused on how to handle things and as I said before this is the last place I'd publicly post for something this stupid, but I just wanted to see others opinions on the topic and I'm taking everyone's feedback into consideration.
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You're right. I went through what he did, sort of. And he's probably going to lose you. That being said, don't sell yourself short. You'll be ok. Like I said though. Boundaries.
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Thank you so much I'm glad there are guys out there who know what their doing😊
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For some of us, it's only after we -blam!- up royally. Im speaking from experience, unfortunately. If you guys are THAT serious, maybe try counseling. It helps.
