Ok, this post isn't about destiny whatsoever. I'm having an existential crisis, and I just need people to talk to. I've been living in isolation for the past few weeks, with no one to talk to, and for the past few years I've felt my life is meaningless. I'm sorry if you guys get mad or criticise me for posting this in the destiny section, but I know this will reach way more people here. I'm not going to bother posting on instagram, facebook, or other shit like that, as no one I care about uses them. So if you're willing to be a friend for someone who kinda needs one, please message me and I'll give you a way to contact me.
Edit: For those of you who say I should move this to Off Topic, I stated my reason above. I know this post will reach more people if I put in in the main thread instead of Off Topic. If you have a problem with it, ignore it.
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If you have a mic you can add me if you want. We can run patrols or something. I'll be on this afternoon. Tag is the same.
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Do not feel alone on this situation man, there are a lot of us that had passed for a similar phase in our lives. The first thing I can suggest you, now that you already recognized your situation, is to get some professional help. That will give you a well balanced person to hear you and to give you some guide on the steps you need to follow. Isolation is not a completely bad thing, sometimes we need our space and our time to think about life and all the things that matter to us. So, if you find too complicated to return to society right away, the second thing I could suggest you is to fill up your isolation of positive activities. Recover old hobbies from the past or experience new ones (singing, writing, bike, skates, etc.), anything that bring some joy to your day. Isolation is bad when it starts to hurt you, so don't let that happen. In all this process, with the guide of a professional, you will need to let some people get closer to you, family or friends, slowly included into your world. Remember that the most important goal is to know you better, accept you as you are and be sure of the future you want for yourself.
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You should move this to #OffTopic. At least then the people telling you to -blam!- off will be saying it ironically ;)
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#offtopic
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Hey mate, gonna bump this for you so some more ppl might see it with the hope someone can hook up with you.
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Seriously, though: you need professional help. See a counselor.
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Edited by mallarie: 2/21/2017 9:28:22 PMWhy are you in isolation? If you don't mind me asking.
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Keep your chin up pal :/
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I'd play with you, but I'm on PS4 :/
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Sorry to hear that. I'm in the same boat, bought my house 3.5 years ago, I'm just outside of town so I'm not "nearby" any friends. For first 2 years I kept up decent contact with a few people, but never really met people away from my house. Last 7 months I've only had 2 people over. Too much time to think is a terrible thing for the mind. Unfortunately, spending that much time away from people created a social anxiety that makes it that much harder to involve myself with groups.