[quote]It's usually quite pointless to be firing shots at another user with a thread. Anyway, I disagree with #3 (the first one, because you numbered two of them #3). Being cool and carefree (about seriousness of relationships, not about your partner) doesn't have to mean going out of your way to make it appear like you don't care. Some people naturally don't show as much affection as others, yet a good deal of those people find it easy enough to get in a decent relationship. I would say that your 1/1M estimate is very far off the mark. Also, scoring a partner doesn't have to mean making a large effort. If you're likeable enough, people will be attracted to you.[/quote] So I did friend o, thanks matey. Changed and edited.