It seems some people take this game way too serious, as if it actually means something in real life and it just doesn't... Not one bit. If they act the way they did, it's cause their egos were bruised and needed a little massaging. For me, I always take the blame... makes them feel better. "Sorry guys, my bad." or whatever they need to hear, I've kept a few raids alive doing that. It's why I would love match making, so I don't have to deal with the egos. That said, I have found quite a few nice people in LFG but honestly, I won't do it anymore... It's not worth it. I haven't done the new raid and don't care if I ever do. I look at it this way, if I never do, it will make it easier to not get the next DLC and pass up on D2 all together, so it's win win.