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Edited by Fastball XII:
9/14/2015 12:57:14 AM
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What About the Good Guys?
Flood, answer me this. Why nowadays is it the bad guys getting the girls? The girls are with the abusive guys, the guys who are complete idiots. Mainly, football players. They get all the girls. What happened to the good guys?
I'm just the friendly smart guy in the class. I can help with homework, I play baseball, and I treat girls with respect. Why isn't it guys like me who can get girls anymore? Why does it have to be the the meathead idiots who treat girls like all they're good for is making sandwiches?
I know what you'll probably say Flood. "Man up!" "Don't be a pvssy!" Seriously Foodians. I want to know what you think about this.
Edit: Thanks for the advice guys! I have a date next Saturday!
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Edited by Britton: 10/11/2015 11:55:19 AMBeing a good guy is ok, but you can't be some beta cry baby. Chicks dig alpha males.
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Why do you go after girls? Girls are indoctrinated to go after whatever society tells them to. [spoiler]how fkn easy it is to be a NFL sport clone[/spoiler] Women know what they want, if they want a jackass they will go after a jackass. Stay true to yourself, you are already more of a man than most of the ppl i meet.
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I am a nice guy but I have the girl I want so... I'm lucky.
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I don't understand it either. I'm a girl and I'd never date a guy that is abusive and disrespectful to me it's dumb... Is all cute and lovely until she's in the hospital or something. The girls that go for bad guys are usually the so called "pretty girls" and wants a guy that can protect her and fight for her. These guys usually are the jock type If you want to describe them that way. I understand protecting you but it shouldn't matter as long as they love you for who you are and respects and takes care of you.
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Bad guys get the pretty girls until they're pregnant then the nice guys get a chance. Otherwise the only other option for nice guys is the fat girls.
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1 ReplyMost football players I know (myself included) are pretty chill. Are you confusing being a nice guy for being a pushover? People in general like confidence. "To put it simply: men are neither supposed nor allowed to be dependent. They are expected to take care of others and themselves. And when they cannot or will not do it, then the assumption at the heart of the culture is that they are somehow less than men and therefore unworthy of help. An irony asserts itself: by being in need of help, men forfeit the right to it."
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2 RepliesIt's not because you're nice it's because you're fat gay and socially awkward, I believe filthy frank made a song about it.
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Edited by HANHdrew: 9/13/2015 9:41:26 PMGirls don't like guys with no sack in between their legs "Good guys" are looked at more like little boys or friends. You can be respectful, intelligent, confident and all that crap while still hanging on to your manhood. Confidence is everything.
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2 RepliesThe good guys have girls they are just quiet and intelligent and keep to them selves and are much happier than the other popular girls who's destiny is pregenacy and abuse
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Edited by ShimmyBoom777: 9/13/2015 9:20:54 PMBecause you lack the social skills to actually pick up girls. Edit: Also this is not anything new.
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1 ReplySame i have had a ceush on a girl since 6th grade but the day i get the courage to ask her out sje got back together with a football player that calls her a b*tch and broke up with her because of her voice[spoiler]i also play baseball and is the best sport ever made[/spoiler]
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Also girls like bad guys because it gets them more attention from their parents so if your girl likes bad boys it is because of you.
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because you are ugly and don't have a personality
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That is true. Even the average are kicked in the balls and left in the cold
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Edited by Legoburn: 9/13/2015 8:23:51 PMThere are many factors in play for a girl to like a guy, and a lot of it is based on the girl's personality as well. Maybe there's something you don't have that they want. And remember, it goes the other way too. Some girl might be into you and wondering why all the guys go for the dumb bimbos.
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2 RepliesEdited by ofaDyingStar: 9/11/2015 7:42:28 AMIf you have to say you're a nice guy, you're [i]not[/i] a nice guy. Girls go for boys they [i]like[/i]. Not good boys. Or bad boys. They go for people they are physically and mentally attracted to. Being 'good' or 'bad' has nothing to do with it. Just be you and don be a dick if you get rejected. Simple. Edit: FYI being nice to a girl doesn't mean she owes you sex or a relationship.
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4 RepliesI'm the equivalent of that one old guy at the bar who everyone acknowledges and respects but is approached by no one I've had a rough life and continue to struggle but still living and breathing; testament to my hardiness...that no one wants to be involved with... :(
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1 ReplyOnce again I have to say it. Being nice and being a pushover and doing every little thing the girl wants are different. Don't bend over backwards for a girl. She will see that as either desperate or weird. Girls do want a nice guy to be with, but they also want the guy to be able to speak his mind and no be a complete pushover. This isn't to say you are a pushover. But every guy that says this, is usually the one who lets women walk all over him. And he wonders why women won't stay.
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1 ReplyEdited by SGT DUPREY: 9/11/2015 7:33:33 AMWhat about us, look man it's not your problem. Just live your life, disregard societal norms. I'll admit I'm after the same thing every guy is after, I just don't care enough to pursue it. I also find incessant drama repulsive. The "if you have a dick, you're the devil" theme is becoming far more popular thanks to "feminazis" frightens me. I would also consider marriage but the phrase "betting someone half your stuff you'll love each other forever" comes to mind. Don't get me wrong I'd love a girlfriend/wife(eventually) and it may seem like my standards are high but I just don't care. I want an equal not a superior or a lesser. However, I may die alone. I've already accepted that.
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It's not assholishness that's attractive. It's confidence. Confidence, ambition, and power is attractive. You're just not showing enough of it.
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3 RepliesSo, just because you're friendly, you think that means every girl should want to be with you? Are you attracted to every friendly person you come across?
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1 ReplyBecause those are girls, not women.
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I feel the same man
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Nowadays? It's been that way for many years. I think women think nice guys are pushovers and they want a guy to make choices and be dominant. Some advice though..don't ever go out with a girl who likes bad boys, they aren't worth the time and effort to try to change their mind. If they want to get their ass beat daily then -blam!-em, being a white knight for them just makes you look desperate.
