i can tell you that from my side of things, the reason i prefer ps over xbox start with membership. gold costs, what $15/month? ps+ costs $5. it also gives a lot of free games, most are meh, but some are keepers. they also give decent discounts for the subscription. rocket league will be coming to ps4 soon and that definitely has some big bonuses. outside of that, my ps4 is about 60% gaming and 40% netflix. my suggestion would be to stick with one or the other from a financial perspective. $20/month (assuming both xbox and ps+) can really add up. if ended all my subscriptions, i'd probably be looking at saving $500/year which means 500 less debt which means about 28%*500 less interest to pay and so on. just be smart and have fun. my fiance jokingly calls us a playstation family, but it really just comes down to brand loyalty for years of amazing fun and preference towards playstation games (castlevania, final fantasy, to start) and it ends at what my friends play on, which is playstation.