We exist, in greater numbers than you think. My husband wasn't too into destiny when it came out, whereas I was immediately hooked. Then one day I came home and I found him totally engrossed in levelling up his Titan. Now we do all our dailies and weeklies together, and if he ever works on the weekend I'll do the dailies for him on his 3 characters (and on my 3 as well). The only thing we haven't done is raiding, since he's studying to get into nursing school and I promised to wait so that we can experience our first raid together (2 IB lvl 32s running around VoG normal lmao). My advice: mention that you're gamer within the first few dates, ideally you'll find a partner with similar interests or at the very least one who genuinely doesn't mind that you game for hours on end. If they don't, then don't waste your (and her) time. Good luck!