So I really want to try this with my boyfriend but he thinks it's stupid v.v
Edit: I'm talking about ME being the submissive, not him, ignore anything he's saying lol
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Uuuuhhhh...
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Boy do I love choking the girl I'm getting poon from.
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Err if you're the bipolar type/insecure type or if he is the paranoid type it's bet that you guys don't. I remember a false -blam!- accusation occurring somewhere because the chick later got in a fight with her boyfriend. (Ignore this if you aren't talking about bdsm)
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if he thinks it's stupid he's not going to take is seriously or want to truly live the lifestyle. being a dom or sub is something that comes from the heart that one has to be passionate and wholly committed to.
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When you get a new bf get one that is actually good in bed :3 None of this "Oh I don't wanna try fun stuff out" kinda guy. Literally whatta KillJoy.
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Edited by DukeOfStuffing: 5/5/2015 7:14:11 PMMan, overly submissive/domimant girls scare me. Let's just be tied up [i]together[/i]
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<3submissive girls js
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That's weird.
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If he legit doesn't want to you can't force him nor will it be pleasing for either one of you if you did. If he seems like he doesn't want to but has no real knowledge on it etc then show him some videos of light stuff and then see of his opinion changes. I wouldn't suggest bondage to newbies but maybe he holds your wrists firmly against the wall? Or something similar maybe some ass spanking?
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ITT:Lovers Quarrel/Op's BF being a fgt
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Edited by TechnoKat: 5/5/2015 6:08:18 PMWell. Start simple. Little things that don't seem like they're too hard to pull off. Hair pulling, a few orders here and there. Ask him what he wants done first before telling him what you need. Generally speaking things will just progress from there. Edit: Note that things only progress if he finds himself enjoying the exchange, it'll eventually start feeling natural to him if he's into it. Even if that goes without saying, it's worth a mention.
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Do it.
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If he doesn't want to, you can't force him into doing it. Also it's kinda messed up to put your sexual life for everyone see. You guys should talk about this to each other, not in the forum for everyone to see
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If ur both into it then is awesome if ur not then its gonna be awkward n not work out. Start small and see if hes into it n then progress from there
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Yes this will help
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What is submissive
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If he won't do it I will.
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Submissive...what?
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Your BF seems like how u say, blood belching vagina?
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Creo que usted debe mantener su vida sexual a ti mismo, ramera
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Attention seeking thread is attention seeking. And pointless. When a woman says she wants to try something in bed and her significant other says no she dumps him. Dont give me that i love him crap either cause he dont love you if he wont step slightly out of his comfort zone. But being a sub is a lifestyle thing so if youre serious you wont dump him for anything short of cheating or abuse (abuse is debatable though)
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Def wouldn't do it unless she really wanted to but it would be really awkward for me
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It takes a lot of trust on both ends. My ex gf was a sub and it was fun for a while but then she wanted too much from me and crossed the line. Now i'm not really into that stuff anymore lol. Point is to ease into it and lay down some ground rules.
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Jessica I love you but I am not doing that shit, I don't wanna get my balls tazed thank you very much