There are very few white people who know enough black people on a personal level to say their friends user or/and they hear it "all the time", and If by some chance u r that 1 or 2 white kids that live in a ghetto or have a few black college buddies and co-workers, u would know just off respect for them not to use it and would have NO PROBLEM, refraining from using it, no matter how much "-blam!-" rolls off the tongue. Yeah I got the part where allowing 1 side to still have privilege is causing separation. Which only leads to more racism. But let's face it, is a word like -blam!- really that serious? Because I can point out multiple privileges your avg white person has just by being white and in America. Don't act as if this country didn't just have a Government that had laws and secret agendas to systematically oppress certain "minorities" less than half a century ago and u guys act as if the effects aren't still in play. Smh.