I propose a simple solution to the conflict that is happening.
Most likely you've already heard the news that Raids will [b]not[/b] support matchmaking. So you will have to find partners to complete Raids with on your own. All by yourself. Scary, I know lol.
But my proposition is that whenever your in the Tower you can go up to something known as the "Raid Wall." Or something like that, doesn't really sound cool I know. Anyways, you can go up to it and put up a notice, letting people know you need team members to complete a raid with. By putting up this notice, people will have the ability to inspect you and decide whether or not they want to do a raid with you. If they do, it will send you a notification letting you know. Whenever you put up a notice everyone in the tower at that time will be able to see it. Doesn't matter which instance there in, however once they leave and come back your notice for them will have expired.
For people who are serious about raiding, being able to inspect their gear will ensure you that they fit the requirements your looking for and aren't just paired with a noob.
[spoiler] Just an idea, constructive criticism is expected. Also people who completely hate my idea is also expected. Just an idea, let me know what you think. Please be positive when stating your opinion. [b]This is a little idea, I could care less if it was added. Just an easier way to find raid mates without having to log onto the forums. [/b][/spoiler]
[spoiler] Also, if you have any ideas or things you think I should add let me know. [/spoiler]
Update: I was thinking, why can't the Raid Wall be connected to the forums? And whenever you access the Raid Wall in game you actually access the forums. Maybe? I don't know. What do you think?
Anyways, let me know what you think! :)
(Also here's a little game, if a raid wall was put in the game what would you want it to be called.)