This girl who I share a class with has been sending me mixed messages.
Most of the time she calls me a pretentious -blam!- (I can relate to this).
But she has often suggested she likes me even though from the way she talks she clearly doesn't.
She has:
>Asked if I would ever date a girl of her race
>Asked me out to parties and stuff with her friends
--> Treated me like -blam!- at these parties (I was pretty pissed off)
>Told me she is into guys like me (Mixed Race)
>Randomly been really flirtatious and nice on occasions
She has also:
>Tried to make my life as miserable as possible
>Stolen my stuff
>Generally acted like I was a complete ass
>Accused me of things I would never do (Stealing, vandalising etc.)
So tell me Flood, wat do?
OT: I am not interested in dating her, but I have to spend a lot of time with her so it would nice if we could at least be friendly.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Dodge Reborn [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Saphir Eagle Ask her what the hell does she want from you, if she's interested, tell her to get her act together and perhaps start going out. simple in theory, near impossible in practice.[/quote] This would be the perfect plan if I was even remotely attracted to her. [/quote] oh.. well the I'd go with petits suggestion
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The Flood isnt a blog.
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Tell her to -blam!- off and then dance away, Gangnam style. *Dances out of thread Gangnam style*
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Anyway, she might be bipolar. The same thing has happened to me before, but I never got to find out why. Try ignoring her when she being a -blam!-, it'd probably help. If she really does like you, she'll probably stop. When she starts being nice, show her that you appreciate it.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Dodge Reborn I can't just ignore her.[/quote] I'm not saying pretend she doesn't exist ignore. Is it school related? Deal with her, but only with the school related stuff. Anything beyond that? Nope.
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Not interested? Then why hang out with her? Tell her straight up that she's being rude and you don't like it. If she continues her ways, just ignore her.
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Stick it in her pooper?
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I have a theory on this... I think she needs to show others that someone likes her. That she has some success on boys and that is why she implies she likes you only to you, to make you pay attention. On the other hand she wishes to show that she is hard to get and on top of the game - that is why she treats you badly at parties etc and why she says things about you to show you are not good enough for her. What you should do...? Hm dont give her the first and the second will change. No attention (martini) no party :) Hope it helps
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Methew [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Dodge Reborn None of this advice is helpful. I thought you would have more experience on this considering how many of these threads are made on here. Guess that was a dumb assumption. [/quote] Even mine? Seriously: This girl is bouncing back and forth between if she's interested in you and treating you like crap faster than a ping pong ball between Forest Gump and the Chinese champion. Tell her that you are tired of the headache she is causing, ignore her and get on with your life.[/quote] I share a class with her for the next two years. I can't just ignore her. We aren't talking a large class here, about 15 people in it.
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If she's treating you like that, then just try to get a little drunken action once in a while.
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OP wants a hot topic
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Kill her.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Dodge Reborn None of this advice is helpful. I thought you would have more experience on this considering how many of these threads are made on here. Guess that was a dumb assumption. [/quote] Even mine? Seriously: This girl is bouncing back and forth between if she's interested in you and treating you like crap faster than a ping pong ball between Forest Gump and the Chinese champion. Tell her that you are tired of the headache she is causing, ignore her and get on with your life.
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Toast/Envelope Method.
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None of this advice is helpful. I thought you would have more experience on this considering how many of these threads are made on here. Guess that was a dumb assumption.
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-blam!- her then send the images to her parents. Refuse to contact her again. [Edited on 10.03.2012 11:37 AM PDT]
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Saphir Eagle Ask her what the hell does she want from you, if she's interested, tell her to get her act together and perhaps start going out. simple in theory, near impossible in practice.[/quote] This would be the perfect plan if I was even remotely attracted to her.
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-blam!- her and take pictures. Then proceed to blackmail her. That should teach something to that -blam!-.
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Ask her what the hell does she want from you, if she's interested, tell her to get her act together and perhaps start going out. simple in theory, near impossible in practice.
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block her on all sites and delete all her texts
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] BK Burger Boy Kill her and mail her remains to her parents.[/quote]Isn't it the other way around?
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] BK Burger Boy Kill her and mail her remains to her parents.[/quote] I don't know where her parents live. Give me better advice!
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Dodge Reborn So tell me Flood, wat do?[/quote] It's really simple. "-blam!-, you are a -blam!- headache. Later."
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Screw her, cease interaction with her and go find a decent human being.
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Sounds like she's suffering from a bad case of "teenage girl syndrom".
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Kill her and mail her remains to her parents.