Is it a sign a girl is not interested when they reply with half-ass texts? What I mean by that is not putting much effort into the conversation, replying with one word responses, and etc? She has told me she likes me but some days this happens :/. If she liked me I would assume she would want to keep things interesting so I would like her, which I do by the way.
I guess texting gets boring so this could be a result of that, however we haven't texted in a few days so she should be excited to text me again. Before these past couple days, we texted everyday for almost 2 months, so this is a bit strange.
[Edited on 09.29.2011 8:04 PM PDT]
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have you tried the toast/envelope method?
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Don't know why but girls do this. They think they're being funny or playing hard to get. Attempting to play a mind game with you. Hey man now you know...It's a mind game, do the same thing back, it will get pretty funny. If she likes you she will ALWAYS text you if she's playing her little game and you just stop or do it back. And you will always notice her texts getting larger and larger.
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Texting isn't for conversing. Texting is for flirting and teasing her. You don't even need to text her every day. Give her hardly any attention.
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Stop texting her, let her come to you bro.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Clueless313 I'll assume you're in school. Here's my advice; [i]Don't date in high school.[/i][/quote] But if you can't control yourself... Wait until you can drive.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Hoggs Bison [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Zezima She's told me she likes me[/quote] This could be a sign that she... likes you.[/quote] I doubt that.
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Do you text her like crazy? My past boyfriends did that all the time and it annoyed the hell out of me so I would send half ass texts.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Hoggs Bison [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Zezima She's told me she likes me[/quote] This could be a sign that she... likes you.[/quote]
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Tell her she smells bad.
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My girlfriend has a tendency to do that. That might just be because she doesn't feel like talking or isn't one for texting.
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She could be emotionally conflicted, or going through a spell of depression. You would be better off asking her if maybe there's anything on her mind because she doesn't seem herself. This is a great way to ask because it show's you Care about her, you notice if she's not alright, and that you want the best for her.
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Pee in her butt.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Frosan Ask her out again. If she keeps going out with you, your ok. Don't do it over a tex though. Guys grow the biggest -blam!- balls when sending text messages. At least call her or ask her in person.[/quote] What the hell are you talking about? Girls like that confidence, but they're little ho's nowadays. They'll act like you're being "awkward" and such if they don't like you. Texting is always the route to go -- just make sure you put the moves on them first date.
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Same thing happened to me. Except I don't talk to her anymore. For the record it was her fault. You should be okay. Maybe this chick you're talking to isn't paranoid about advances on sex like the girl I was talking to felt like.
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No more of these god damn threads. You're strangling the Flood!
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Zezima [quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Herro Prease Texting everyday for two months... and you haven't done [i]anything[/i]? Look, I've learned that trusting girls is impossible. If they say they like you, it really doesn't matter -- it all comes down to hanging out with them or getting a date. Get a thing or get a relationship, and go to it. More and more, I'm finding that confidence -- and non creepy persistence -- is key. If she doesn't like you, move on... we all have done. Pushing the boundaries and moving fast is what needs to happen, otherwise it's done. Ask her to hang out in your next text, if your current convo is just about done.[/quote] I have done some stuff with her and I just said we should hang out like a minute before I read this (lol), she just replied I'm pretty busy... fml[/quote] Ask again in a couple days, and if she says the same thing, then move on. It's hard -- I know -- but persistence wears off after a week. Time is short in the girl-world, and pushing too long get's "creepy" to them. You can keep going for her, but ask her again Saturday. See what she says. If she doesn't, then altogether stop talking to her. She'll want to text back if she's playing the game, but if she's genuinely not interested, then it's over.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Herro Prease Texting everyday for two months... and you haven't done [i]anything[/i]? Look, I've learned that trusting girls is impossible. If they say they like you, it really doesn't matter -- it all comes down to hanging out with them or getting a date. Get a thing or get a relationship, and go to it. More and more, I'm finding that confidence -- and non creepy persistence -- is key. If she doesn't like you, move on... we all have done. Pushing the boundaries and moving fast is what needs to happen, otherwise it's done. Ask her to hang out in your next text, if your current convo is just about done.[/quote] I have done some stuff with her and I just said we should hang out like a minute before I read this (lol), she just replied I'm pretty busy... fml
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Texting everyday for two months... and you haven't done [i]anything[/i]? Look, I've learned that trusting girls is impossible. If they say they like you, it really doesn't matter -- it all comes down to hanging out with them or getting a date. Get a thing or get a relationship, and go to it. More and more, I'm finding that confidence -- and non creepy persistence -- is key. If she doesn't like you, move on... we all have done. Pushing the boundaries and moving fast is what needs to happen, otherwise it's done. Ask her to hang out in your next text, if your current convo is just about done.
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Eh, she might get bored every now and then or perhaps could be doing something that would be distracting her. Just two possible options, there are others.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] MC LOL88 in high school, women are evil and just unpredictable men, on the other hand, are either stupid enough to fall into their games or intelligent enough to realize that it never is worth it and to wait for college...[/quote] Practice my friend. Practice makes perfect.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] ShadowLegacy Well, she could be busy and not have time to make long-ass texts? Or, maybe your annoying her with the amount of texts you are sending. [/quote] Okay well next time I'm going to let her text me then, unless she says to text her.
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[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] FlapjacksNsyrup She could be nervous and not know what to say at times. If she told you she likes you, she could be feeling awkward around you now because she is insecure if you really like her back.[/quote]That.
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in high school, women are evil and just unpredictable men, on the other hand, are either stupid enough to fall into their games or intelligent enough to realize that it never is worth it and to wait for college...
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Also, don't ever make your texts more then two sentences. EVER. LIKE EVER NO EXCEPTIONS.
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Well, she could be busy and not have time to make long-ass texts? Or, maybe your annoying her with the amount of texts you are sending.
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Texting is probably THE worst way of communicating, I've realized this over the last couple of months. I don't have convos over text now because their just...wierd. Anyways kindof off topic. Just take a risk and ask if shes still interested if you're really that curious, do it in person though. Or just ask her out, your pick.