The key is to learn proper beard care, and to visit a barber at least once every two months, well worth the investment and time in the chair. Look into specifically beard wash, and beard oil or cream depending on your preference some people prefer the oil because the cream makes them feel greasier but I don't have that issue, the follicles absorb it easy enough for me, also comb it every day. You can skip becoming Old hobo Joe with simple hygienic beard care- If long and luxurious is what you want.