These kids have to learn that hiding behind a keyboard and being an eThug is NOT acceptable... If you wouldn't say it to someone's face, you probably shouldn't say it all.... With electronic communication taking over physical communication people get more brave with some of the stuff they say... All you can do is laugh it off and hope that one day they either learn or get the crap beat out of them for saying it to the wrong person (which is learning a lesson as well) Edit: you should have gave him an address to meet you at, telling him he can "cash that check" anytime he wants