It's ok the way it is. It makes you get better. I was never into destiny PVP much. I was getting wrecked when Trials started. Last week I went flawless with all 3 characters. Find 2 buddies who communicate well, work through the initial frustration and you'll eventually do it. In reality the bigger problem is running into bad connections, lagswitchers and fireteam member disconnections. I swear those happen more regularly than running into unbeatable teams.