How much research have you done? If you go to their website, they have a note saying "If you unable to join us because your are male please check out our alliance clan safegamers." A guy may not want to be a Dame of Destiny, but the SafeGamers are open to all. "Providing a safe, fun, positive, Respectful gaming environment for ALL of the guardians of Destiny. Open to all consoles, all gamer types, all ages, races, genders, sexual orientations etc. Your light is strong guardian, prove it! All members are screened and assessed as "safe" gamers. Allies to the Dames of Destiny." - SafeGamers Forum Instead of focusing on the fact they have a "Girls-Only" clan, you should be glad they also have a place for Male gamers interested!