I've never felt oppressed by Christians. The worst I've seen is stupid comments like (It's a choice.), but what group of people hasn't made stupid comments?
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Being gay isn't a choice but being homosexual is
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(Homosexual) (of a person) sexually attracted to people of one's own sex. (Gay) a homosexual, especially a man. I'm confused by what you mean.
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Practicing it I mean
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Edited by En inglés: 2/27/2015 4:11:56 PMDo you understand how unrealistic it is to expect gays to never have sex with another gay. That's like telling a straight guy "Don't have sex with women."
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[quote]That's like telling a straight guy "Don't have sex with women."[/quote] Its not impossible. There are some men that go their whole lives without it. Sex (excluding for reproductive purposes) isn't vital to life. Having sex is always a choice, no matter what orientation you are. Therefore, homosexual or heterosexual acts are [i]always[/i] a choice.
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Edited by En inglés: 2/27/2015 4:19:28 PMTell me how many men you've seen in your life go their whole life without having sex? I've heard of one. And if it's that easy please do be an example to us all.
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I never said it was easy. I never said I knew any either. But I [i]did[/i] say its not impossible and that its a choice.
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Edited by En inglés: 2/27/2015 4:29:01 PM[quote]I never said I knew any either.[/quote] The fact that you've never seen or heard of anyone doing it is your answer as to whether it's realistic.
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I never [i][b]knew[/b][/i] any =/= I never [i][b]heard[/b][/i] of any.
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Without Googleing it name a few.
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If I didn't know them, how can I name them? And what would names mean to you? All I could tell you is that I know that men have done it before. I've heard of at least six. But I don't know them, therefore I cannot tell you their names.
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Edited by En inglés: 2/27/2015 4:39:25 PMMy point is you don't know their names, so how do you know if they were liars or not? Or if others lied? You're going off of what you've heard from other people. We all know that's never a good idea. Can I ask something though? Do you think it's immoral?
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Look if you want to try to justify to yourself that it [i]isnt[/i] a choice, then that's on you. Yes, I do believe its immoral, but the morality values I have are very conservative. Secondly, why does what I think matter to you? I'm just some guy on bnet.
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[quote] Secondly, why does what I think matter to you? I'm just some guy on bnet.[/quote] Your the one trying to convince me of your opinion. My original conversation had nothing to do with you. Obviously you have no valid way to defend your point of view and you got defensive.
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Its not an opinion. If a man can choose not to have sex his whole life, it doesn't matter what sexual orientation he is, his sex life [i][b]is a choice[/b][/i].
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I never said it wasn't a choice for two people to have sex. I said it is prodigiously unrealistic to expect them not to. If it is so easily possible then be an example and show the gays how to live life without sex.
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Edited by Sylux102: 2/27/2015 4:55:06 PMThen what youre saying is that homosexual acts [i]are[/i] a choice. No matter how impossible it may seem. I've done it my whole life so far, and I honestly don't see it changing anytime soon. And I'm pretty sure the term "the gays" is wrong. Idk because I'm not, but you said you are so is that the correct term?
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Edited by En inglés: 2/27/2015 4:56:35 PMJesus dude. Yes having sex is a choice. Not having sex is prodigiously unrealistic. The same rule applies to people who like the same sex. You've gone your whole life without gay sex because you're not gay. If you were your view would be drastically different.
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Edited by Sylux102: 2/27/2015 5:00:04 PMI've never had sex.... So its not that unrealistic. How would my view be any different? I haven't had sex before and don't see it happening in the future. I [i]choose[/i] not to have sex. My sexual orientation has no bearing on that choice.
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How old are you? (I don't mean it as an insult.)
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Edited by Sylux102: 2/27/2015 5:03:51 PM20. Which is impressive considering most people start at 16. And I know I won't be in the future (unexpected r a p e encounters aside, those don't really count since its not a choice for the victim). Its not an impossibility. People used to think flying was impossible. Or going to space. Or internet. EDITS: Spelling. Phones with autocorrect hate spelling.
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I'm just saying its a choice
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And by human nature an impossible one.