"[i]swinging at the OP[/i]" ... mmmm, now you are referring to yourself in the third person. Should we put that down to new parent sleep deprivation? "[i]someday you'll be a parent[/i]" - yep, got there before you, - and didnt get confused between being a parent and a gamer (especially with the first, but hey also didnt expect "[i]mama to be at home[/i]") Plus wake up to yourself ... go check the other replies. Notice a trend ... go buy a book on parenting and check the chapter on '[i]how to be a good gamer[/i]' - lol