Let me ask one question Would you rather: A) Never have the chance to meet your father, even though you would like to B) Meet your father, even though you kinda don't want to, C) Never meet him, and regret it later. My point here is that many people do want to meet their fathers, even if only deep in their hearts, and you have been given that chance. However bad someone is, you should always give them a second chance. This is all your own choice, but I would've said yes