[quote][b]Posted by:[/b] Lies First of all, -blam!- hasn't changed my expectations for the worse at all. Not sure about you, but sex is pretty satisfying and I don't see how -blam!- changes that.[/quote]It should have, p0rn is very fake, and until you have sex, you have no way of knowing that. [quote]Secondly, -blam!- does not lead to objectification. You think that because person A watches -blam!-, suddenly they're developing misogynistic tendencies? Let's be real, most people are able to separate fiction from reality so it shouldn't be a problem. If you can't, then you have other things to worry about.[/quote]Your body/mind doesn't know, if it knew it was fake you wouldn't get turned on. You get turned on because your body thinks it is time for intercourse. [quote]And there is no way in hell that you have seen "too many relationships" break up because of -blam!-; that's one of the weakest excuses I've heard. If a couple seriously uses that as an excuse then there are obviously deeper issues at fault.[/quote]Not true at all. The man was exposed to p0rn at a young age and couldn't give it up even when he wanted to because his wife satisfied him. But even so, he was addicted to p0rn, when his wife found out and asked him to stop, he couldn't, after some time of this they separated and that is that. Please don't tell me you know what I have seen better than me. [quote]This honestly reminds me of some horrible movie I watched on lifetime or hallmark about the dangers of -blam!-. It was obvious scare tactics because it went against the producers misguided feelings of morality; some kid ruined his entire life and -blam!- was made to look like the culprit, when it was obvious to anyone with a brain that the kid was retarded as hell.[/quote]Nice, I don't see what this has to do with anything as part of the discussion. P0rn can be a turning point in peoples lives, and those who say it aren't are often just deluding themselves, because they can't face the tough truth. [quote]If you think that -blam!- is dangerous and "corrupts moral values" or something like that then it's time to get out of the 50's.[/quote]I think it can be dangerous to relationships (which it can) and I think people have been believing the lie of the internet, that it is totally fine and nothing bad happens as a result. Plus, I don't want this thread to be about morality, but yes, I think that it can be considered morally wrong to some people. [i]- JFKES[/i]