You've seen the stereotypes. The "GRRL" girl, the "Yeah,-I'm-a-girl,-but-I'll-kick-your-ass" girl, the "celebugamer." While these girls do exist, hey, there're us regular-type girls who play videogames, too. Most of the gamer chicks you see promoting themselves on the internet love attention more than gaming, or are paid to adopt that stereotypical “girl gamer” persona, but what about the rest of us girls – the ones who actually play videogames? We’re stealthily walking among you like ninjas – and man, do we have a lot to hate about gaming.
1. "Well, you don't LOOK like a gamer..."
Why, because I showered? See how stereotypes feel? We’re just as varied as anyone else, but most assume we must be hideously grotesque heifers who lose controllers into the folds of our fat palms like we’re made of coconut-scented quicksand. Unless, of course, we’re wearing Fragdolls T-shirts or Zelda tramp stamps, which is the other acceptable female gamer stereotype.
We don't all wear our love for video games on our sleeves, just like we're sure you don't wear video game novelty shirts every day... right? Right?
2. Honey, we've heard them all before
So you're playing an online game, and you hear yet another prepubescent boy over your headset... but wait, that's no boy! It's a girl! So naturally, you tell her to go back to the kitchen. Funny. Slap yourself on the wrist, you bad, bad boy. Your three seconds of stand-up was only funny the first time, when the other douchebag said it six matchmaking lobbies ago. No one laughed then, either, and no one’s laughing now… probably because you sound fat.
3. We don’t always want to talk about videogames
Great, you met a girl who plays videogames – now you can ALWAYS talk about videogames with her! False. Just because we share a common interest doesn’t mean we don’t have other interests, too, and we know you also have other interests.
Guys love to dumb themselves down to ask us videogame-related questions, just for the novelty of talking to a girl about videogames. We’re not Google, asshole. And don’t condescend, there’s nothing worse. That said…
Just because we’re interested in videogames doesn’t mean we’re interested in you. Once word gets out that there’s a female gamer in the vicinity, guys lose their shit. We’re forced to leave our headsets muted when playing online to avoid the inevitable “So, do you have a boyfriend?” We wanna play the damn game, not hook up with you, k thx. Want a hook-up? Go to…
4. GameCrush
GameCrush enables male gamers to pay to play with attractive female gamers (“PlayDates”). The guys can choose to have their experience be either “flirty” or “dirty.” Ew. This kind of objectification of female gamers just furthers the idea that real female gamers don't exist, or that if they play, they must be ugly.
5. Stupid female character outfits
We realize games are largely based in fantasy, but could character designers get a little more creative with how they clothe their females? Male characters in games get tricked-out armour suits, iconic headgear (Master Chief comes to mind) and outfits that fit their surroundings. Meanwhile, female characters are left with only sashes and a smile.
6. Grrrl Gamers and anything relating to "female gaming empowerment"
Just because we're girls who enjoy spending hours in front of a TV pressing buttons, that does not mean we need to join your community, blog, Facebook group or Twitter-feed-sorority-clustershart of gaming-girl goodness. We like playing games. We are girls. These things don't necessarily need to be tied together, nor do we feel the need to have special treatment because we’re both. And if we happen to want to spend 31 hours perfecting our chopping techniques in Cooking Mama instead of having an equally enjoyable Modern Warfare 2 estrogen-fest against the boys, we shouldn't be considered less of a gamer than you.
(To clarify, everyone is different and not everyone feels this way but nevertheless this'll start a shit storm, this is some points that I personally have been feeling and if people relate then great but in no way am I stating every girl gamer thinks like this.)
If you see me playing be sure to give me a wave :3
- GreyXpPanda
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If you're a girl people ask you to make a sandwich? So you don't get the usual "Suck a dick" "Suck your mom's dick" "Get -blam!-" And many racial slurs of a 8 year old CoD player. You are the lucky one
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Thank god someone said this! I mean i have been danced by, had loads of guys crowd around me i have been getting atleast one friend request everytime i go on. And to top it all off when im on a mission guys feel the need to single me out and start shooting at me hotting me ect.... Come on guys get a friggin grip! X
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I can't stand when pre-pube weirdos mob females in game. Your desperation is palpable. What exactly do you think is going to happen? Are you going to "hit it off"? Pathetic. Put your effort into a gym or some actual meaningful social contact. And ladies, some of your kind's attention seeking behavior is just as bad. So there's that.
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I'd just like to say, as a girl gaymer., I do love to talk about videogames - and play them
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1 AntwortenWow a female ranting......thats a new one
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[quote]probably because you sound fat.[/quote] Oh look a thread talking about a stereotype while using another stereotype...
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2 AntwortenYou say as if only females are the only ones harassed....You shouldn't care what other people think. It's your life and you can do whatever you want to do. Ignore/mute the little boys and girls if they bother you that much.
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1 AntwortenYou're only making the stereotype worse by writing and posting this. Just stop. [spoiler]Girls love to complain[/spoiler]
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It's the variety of people in this world that makes it not so boring :D Good post~
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3 AntwortenMost of what you say is true, coming from a girl that likes to game herself. But it's exaggerated. I've never had anyone ask me if I want to "hookup". Some guys do try to be a smart and make the "go make me a sandwich" jokes but not THAT many. Most guys don't even care, they just want to play the game. Just saying.
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Wow all these posts its her opinion guys, why be dicks about it shes only expressing her feelings and all that like its not a crime anyway well said Panda
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Worth the read. I give this a like. Have a nice day
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While I agree that all said is a problem this is the wrong forum for this please learn to read before you rant
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[quote]You've seen the stereotypes. The "GRRL" girl, the "Yeah,-I'm-a-girl,-but-I'll-kick-your-ass" girl, the "celebugamer." While these girls do exist, hey, there're us regular-type girls who play videogames, too. Most of the gamer chicks you see promoting themselves on the internet love attention more than gaming, or are paid to adopt that stereotypical “girl gamer” persona, but what about the rest of us girls – the ones who actually play videogames? We’re stealthily walking among you like ninjas – and man, do we have a lot to hate about gaming. 1. "Well, you don't LOOK like a gamer..." Why, because I showered? See how stereotypes feel? We’re just as varied as anyone else, but most assume we must be hideously grotesque heifers who lose controllers into the folds of our fat palms like we’re made of coconut-scented quicksand. Unless, of course, we’re wearing Fragdolls T-shirts or Zelda tramp stamps, which is the other acceptable female gamer stereotype. We don't all wear our love for video games on our sleeves, just like we're sure you don't wear video game novelty shirts every day... right? Right? 2. Honey, we've heard them all before So you're playing an online game, and you hear yet another prepubescent boy over your headset... but wait, that's no boy! It's a girl! So naturally, you tell her to go back to the kitchen. Funny. Slap yourself on the wrist, you bad, bad boy. Your three seconds of stand-up was only funny the first time, when the other douchebag said it six matchmaking lobbies ago. No one laughed then, either, and no one’s laughing now… probably because you sound fat. 3. We don’t always want to talk about videogames Great, you met a girl who plays videogames – now you can ALWAYS talk about videogames with her! False. Just because we share a common interest doesn’t mean we don’t have other interests, too, and we know you also have other interests. Guys love to dumb themselves down to ask us videogame-related questions, just for the novelty of talking to a girl about videogames. We’re not Google, asshole. And don’t condescend, there’s nothing worse. That said… Just because we’re interested in videogames doesn’t mean we’re interested in you. Once word gets out that there’s a female gamer in the vicinity, guys lose their shit. We’re forced to leave our headsets muted when playing online to avoid the inevitable “So, do you have a boyfriend?” We wanna play the damn game, not hook up with you, k thx. Want a hook-up? Go to… 4. GameCrush GameCrush enables male gamers to pay to play with attractive female gamers (“PlayDates”). The guys can choose to have their experience be either “flirty” or “dirty.” Ew. This kind of objectification of female gamers just furthers the idea that real female gamers don't exist, or that if they play, they must be ugly. 5. Stupid female character outfits We realize games are largely based in fantasy, but could character designers get a little more creative with how they clothe their females? Male characters in games get tricked-out armour suits, iconic headgear (Master Chief comes to mind) and outfits that fit their surroundings. Meanwhile, female characters are left with only sashes and a smile. 6. Grrrl Gamers and anything relating to "female gaming empowerment" Just because we're girls who enjoy spending hours in front of a TV pressing buttons, that does not mean we need to join your community, blog, Facebook group or Twitter-feed-sorority-clustershart of gaming-girl goodness. We like playing games. We are girls. These things don't necessarily need to be tied together, nor do we feel the need to have special treatment because we’re both. And if we happen to want to spend 31 hours perfecting our chopping techniques in Cooking Mama instead of having an equally enjoyable Modern Warfare 2 estrogen-fest against the boys, we shouldn't be considered less of a gamer than you. (To clarify, everyone is different and not everyone feels this way but nevertheless this'll start a shit storm, this is some points that I personally have been feeling and if people relate then great but in no way am I stating every girl gamer thinks like this.) If you see me playing be sure to give me a wave :3 - GreyXpPanda[/quote] Okay it's scary how many sexist comments there are on this post, it just shows how much we need feminism! I've had plenty of guys comment on how I'm female and that I probably don't know how to play videogames or work a controller, I understand and accept that I'm not the best player out there, but it isn't because I have a pair of tits and a vagina. I just hate how men hate on females who play videogames, like honestly it doesnt bloody matter what sex you are, just as long as you are having a great time and are happy! They are all just games in the end anyway.
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Wow. I get at what you are saying. I hate how inconsiderate and rude other people are! We are all humans and should be treated with respect! Not by these stupid stereotypes.
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I can confirm most of this, although I've had far less issues as an adult than I did when I was a younger gamer. This makes sense, as I only play with adults now. Most of what you posted correlates (for me) with talking to boys (children under 18) online. Men, however, I have had no issue with thus far.
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Why are you even complaining? Just play the game. Ignore the haters. I don't even see the point in you doing this post. Drama queen much?
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2 AntwortenCan someone please tell my why this is such a big -blam!-ing deal? You're a girl and you play games. Just play your games and stop bitching about stereotypes...honestly I dont understand the point
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1 AntwortenAll guys can be douche bags from time to time but there are some guys who chose to always be douche bags which is unacceptable. People are often made fun of for retarded reasons. It happens to me a lot because I am a bi-sexual 16 year old guy. I love games but they aren't everything! :\-Ruler of al(All.)
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1 AntwortenYou contradict yourself by making this post...
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4 AntwortenWell said Chica. Speaking only of my experience you female gamers have my condolences and I personally feel bad on behalf of all male gamers who are not complete pervs and genuinely enjoy playing with ppl from all different walks of life (it's a game system not a dating service and honestly if you have class you shouldn't be hitting on anybody you have zero idea about haha). For any female players looking for a non perv male player and are on ps4 add my gamertag Adub2150 (and any other like minded males as well I'm always looking for new friends).
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You removed my posted observance of you being a narcissist and a drama queen so there ya go ;) just play a good game!
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Sooo....why do you care again? There's a mute button for a reason. It's for everyone, it's not sexist. Use it. Mute the guys who make the jokes and laugh. Making a post on these forums is just going to attract trolls, jerks, and idiots, as well as the few consoling souls that prowl the internet. Every time I say I'm German online, some guy makes a half-baked joke about how I need to use the MP40 to "honor my culture" or some [url=http://www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin%27s_law]-godwinslaw!-[/url] joke like that. But I don't go online and post 6 stereotypes about German gamers. I mute him and move on with my life.
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2 AntwortenWhat real gamer girls hate... are topics about "real" gamers girls. Mostly.
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Bearbeitet von Hades Dragoness: 9/30/2014 5:20:58 PMThis made me laugh because most of it is very true. The only reason I say most is because do eat, shit and fart games and can talk about them all day. I could happily do a pitch document, story board etc just for the fun. Most male gamers I have played with and know that I am a lady are wonderful and treat me just like any other gamer. There are exceptions, like in most things, but that is why there is a block button :) Edit: I disagree with the women's outfits part as well. You would hate to see how I had my Saints Row 4 character XD
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3 AntwortenMan you guys are harsh on this post. Every post in opinion based. Just read and go on