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10/18/2021 2:28:03 PM
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I cant stand this community
Ok before you start harassing or bullying me get this through your heads...I dont care.
Now lets get to the point...I am sick of people treating me like crap, kicking me from fireteams, calling me useless and being toxic to me. Im just trying to enjoy the game. But it seems no one really cares.
Im someone who suffers from autism and thats what is my greatest downfall because even in a fight im a pathetic excuse of a Destiny player. I cant stand people doing this to me.
Also for almost the past week I have been put in a depressive state to where I feel worthless to this community and the toxicity Ive recieved does not help my condition. This community needs to care for one another...especially with those suffering with depression. Now if you all are going to laugh at me you are so heartless and cruel to not care about others.
Please dont hurt me more than I already have been
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#destiny2
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I always laugh whenever bungie tries to say they have the best community around, looking at the forums forums 1 minute disproves that statement compleatly and that dosnt even count the people that don't post here
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Send me a message sometime, you can add me. Always looking for someone to reck some activities with :)
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Most people in this community are redditors and are a plague to society. When you know that you stop thinking twice about them
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I find the platform you play on has an impact as well. I know cross play is a thing but I've found since switching to PC and joining a PC lfg discord the community seem to be more matured and less toxic. Obviously there are always exceptions to the rule but on the whole I feel its been better. I am old now though so tougher skin etc. No body should make you feel that way over a game though. Especially one like this which is heavily focused on team work. I'd say like other posts on here, look for a good sounding clan, or when you do lfg highlight you sometimes get a bit overwhelmed as long as you listen and take the time to learn stuff alot of people will be patient.
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So take a seat 😎
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Personally theres 2 set of players. There's players who might be rubbish but willing to listen and learn. Then there's people who just refuse to listen. I was teaching vog last night. One player had nightwatch, palindrome and a sword on boss fight. I asked him nicely to polity to change to a fusion rifle. We tried again he got extremely low damage and wiped. Turns out he didn't change weapons. I personally can't be using my own time to go out my way to help. If people don't help themselves. Luckily if you're listening and willing to change things up you might find most of us are going to help. I will always make time for those players.
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[quote]Ok before you start harassing or bullying me get this through your heads...I dont care. Now lets get to the point...I am sick of people treating me like crap, kicking me from fireteams, calling me useless and being toxic to me. Im just trying to enjoy the game. But it seems no one really cares. Im someone who suffers from autism and thats what is my greatest downfall because even in a fight im a pathetic excuse of a Destiny player. I cant stand people doing this to me. Also for almost the past week I have been put in a depressive state to where I feel worthless to this community and the toxicity Ive recieved does not help my condition. This community needs to care for one another...especially with those suffering with depression. Now if you all are going to laugh at me you are so heartless and cruel to not care about others. Please dont hurt me more than I already have been[/quote] Sorry you’ve experience that man. There are good people out there. Just ignore all the dbags. Keep on keepin on :)
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3 AntwortenWhat do you need help with bro? I’m glad to help, F those toxic dbags, there are good people here who do want to help and just enjoy content together.
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Try making your own group, then no one can kick you. People tend to be a bit nicer too because they're not the fire team leader. Top tip - It's important to put "be chill" in the description though. Good luck.
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The first and only time I was in a toxic lfg group, you can bet your -blam!- after five minutes I left without saying anything. I understand that sometimes we aren't strong enough for an activity we really want to do. I understand that sometimes there's one person doing all the work and teaching because they're the only powerful one. But that doesn't mean you have to sit there and take verbal abuse. At the end of the day, its just a video game meant to be fun and entertain. No point in getting stressed. At least that's my opinion.
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That’s a bummer, man. Sorry you’ve had a bad rout with LFG. I’ve had some of my best times with randoms and other times have gone downhill.
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You say you don't care, but then you say it upsets you. Don't let it bother you. Play your game and let other people play theirs. It's not your job to make it fun for anybody else. I don't get as much of this as it sounds like you do, although I did get two "quit playing" messages after I had a 0.33 KD in a Trials match. What's funny is that the two people who sent those messages had a 0.8 and a 0.5 KD in the match. Yeah, they're better than me, but I think I'd at least want a positive KD before sending a message like that.
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5 Antworten"I can't stand this community." Proceeds to pool into multiple problems. "I honestly don't care." Proceeds to write a book on why you care. Honestly, one of the biggest issues in society as a whole is people like you. "I have XYZ, pity me and help me out." That bs is what's taken a huge dump on how the world seems to spin nowadays. Learn to shape this hell of a world around your issues, not ask/force/manipulate others to you.
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Don't get discouraged. I solo play most of the time because of the elitist community. For a game that Bungie wants social interaction, they created an elitist monster. There are good people out there.
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2 AntwortenBearbeitet von Chookity-pok__: 10/19/2021 7:18:49 PMIn my previous profession (medic), I worked a lot with people with autism, from borderline to severe. It's tough for them and tough for people around them who don't understand. I'm borderline myself, I used to see it as this huge problem, but it helped me excel in my previous and current profession. I, to [i]some[/i] extent, feel your pain. Anyway, community games should be about helping one another, whether it is helping someone with severe arthritis in their digits, has autism or whatever else. Come join me, I'll help where I can. If we die a thousand times, I won't kick you or say anything negative to you; I'm sure we'll get the objective done eventually 😊 I'll sometimes want to go and do my own thing, as I do like solo play sometimes, as too much socialising kinda gets to me, but I'll be sure to make time for you when I can. Edit: I've sent you bungie friend request. I'll be on tomorrow and we can get some stuff done, if you're about 👍
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Bearbeitet von Demon_XXVII: 10/20/2021 2:10:51 AM@Snowy Catalyst If you scroll down the comments you will see that there are 2 players on XB (bloomin good players!) Willing to help you ([b]II Clepto II[/b] & [b]ToweringBard167[/b] - in 2 different clans) So don’t be so down on the playerbase/community I’m sure others will help too They can always post their names/offers under [b]this[/b] comment Make the effort & ask them/arrange 👍
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Your opening and closing statements directly contradict each over. Also, hi! Fellow spectrum here! I don’t know what you thought you’d achieve with this post other than further you supposed mental decline. If that’s the case you need to start caring about your own mental health, else we won’t
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If you continue to let other people affect your mood you are in for alot of unnecessary trouble.
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Make your own teams. No one can kick you. You can kick them.
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I’d suggest joining a clan. There are a lot of big clans that will accept you and they have good discords so you can easily find help and even get raid sherpas. The issue you have isn’t just with this community. Most people suck and only think about themselves so you’ll feel better about everything as soon as you realize that. I realize that’s a glass half empty kind of outlook but if you keep your expectations low you don’t usually get disappointed. Once you find D2 friends and decent people then stay in contact and be decent yourself and you’ll always have someone to runs -blam!- with. Shoot me an invite in game and my friends and I can run some -blam!- with you.
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Hey Snowy, hears what I want you to do. Go to the Google play store or the apple store, which ever you have and search "bible". Then find "John" and then read. Then, tell me what you thought. If Bungie wants to Cancel me for it, fine
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Posting on social media is [b]doing you more harm[/b]. Call or visit a real person irl and talk to them. Do not use social media as a hub to vent your frustrations about ... social media. GL
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Bearbeitet von Trav: 10/19/2021 10:02:01 PMI am autistic as well.I understand the frustration with what your dealing with. My best advice is look into getting a good therapist and getting anti depression/anxiety medicine as well as exercise that really worked a ton for me. Honestly try to not let it get you down we are who we are for a purpose 😁
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So u made a post attacking the community, even tho they are so nice and helpful. Where is the post attacking u? Cuz I doubt it exists.
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I will play just send friend request.
