I was pulled out of class and informed that my sister had brain cancer :(
As much as me and my sister would argue, I still and always will love her to death. When I had appendicitis, she would stay up all night to keep me company. When I broke a rib, she would tell me jokes to keep my spirits up. Whenever she was mean, there was always a valid reason for it. When we went to Dallas, she had every right to be mean because she had gone through a painful breakup. When she wanted to be left alone during our camping trip, she didn't want to make us sad.
I've always known she was a good person, I knew and believed it with every cell in my body. The downside is that any pain she feels is so much worse. She used to be happy and cheerful, like when we would play games together. I have so many good memories of playing Halo Reach with my sister, but that happiness is gone now.
It breaks my heart to know what she's going through, and the fact that things won't be the same. It's been an hour since I learned of this tragedy, and my mind is a wreck.
Olivia is a nice person, but the punishment is that life is sadistic and tortures her everyday. I'll never be able to enjoy being around the old Olivia; that version is gone. Words do not describe how distraught and sad I am, what makes it worse is that now I have nobody to confide in. There's nobody to help me through tragic events like this, and I can only imagine how bad it is for my sister. To lose a partner because of being framed for something you didn't do is horrible. Having your other sister move away without saying goodbye is even worse. Now, this is the 3rd terrible thing she has to go through. She's said it feels like being shot in an already existing bullet wound, and then having salt rubbed in it. The cycle repeats again, again, and again. Nothing has ever stopped it, and nothing ever will. Please, be grateful to the people in your family. As evidenced by this incident, everything can be wiped away in a moment's notice. As far as I know, you don't need to die to be in hell.
Update: My sister is having surgery to get a brain tumor removed. Hopefully things get better from here.
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That sucks but at least they are able to operate best of luck
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2 AntwortenBoth of you stay strong and don't give up fighting! Look in the face of death and spit in it. You and your sister.
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May an angel watch over her and keep her healthy
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1 AntwortenSorry to hear, best wishes with the surgery and everything going forward <3
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3 AntwortenI lost my golden retriever several years ago to cancer. I still remember those feelings of fear from knowing one day I'd play with her for the last time. She always gave me a sense of security whenever we moved to a new area (I moved a lot growing up). I can understand at least some of the feelings you're dealing with.
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2 AntwortenI really hope that the both of you are ok, best of luck sir!
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1 AntwortenAw damn. Let's put in the work so that she can [b]erase[/b] cancer.
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I can only pray.
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1 AntwortenI’m so sorry to hear that... I don’t think I could imagine receiving news like that. I will pray for the recovery of your sister and strength for your family.
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1 AntwortenMy heart breaks for Olivia. I hope she does finally get better.
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1 AntwortenTreat her well, she surely needs it. [spoiler]No joke spoiler this time, do treat her well[/spoiler]
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1 AntwortenI can’t imagine the pain the both of you are in… i’m so sorry to hear that. Please treat her well and remind her that you love her, she needs it
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1 AntwortenIm really sorry about that man.
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1 AntwortenPeople often times will define themselves by conditions given to them by doctors. Don’t fall for that trap. Plenty of people have survived so called “death sentences” by doctors. I’m sure your sister will be just fine and will at the end of the ordeal become a better person for it. Hardships build character.
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1 AntwortenTake care man, I hope you and your sister the best.
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1 AntwortenSorry to hear about that. I wish you and your sister the best of luck.
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1 AntwortenThat sucks so much. [spoiler]we are all here for you[/spoiler]
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2 AntwortenRemember the good times spent with her. Be a friend to her. Good luck. Cancer sucks, it makes you push loved ones away, and afterwards the damage might not be repairable. Stay strong, both of you.
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1 AntwortenGood luck man, cancer sucks.
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1 AntwortenEven though you might think you hate someone in your family it may not be like that forever, generally speaking not to imply I got that from the post. It's good you like your sister, now you need to persevere and mend both of your wounds so it won't hurt you after you can't do anything. Stay strong my dood.
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1 AntwortenI'm so sorry. She sounds lovely and I hope for the best.
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1 AntwortenGod damn I'm so sorry man. -blam!- cancer.
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2 AntwortenDo not despair friend, as long as she has a strong spirit n will she can win this war, I can only hope you do not have to go through the same events I had to go thru. My cousion or second-cousion (the stories a bit confusing but i digress) succumbed to cancer, n he was only a baby, life ripped any chance of me getting to see him grow or be there for him when life was rough, he barely got a chance to fight back...I pour all my strengh n will to you n your sister that you may see a brighter future together, n not have to be burdened with the weight that weighs down my shoulders every day.
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1 AntwortenIm sorry, I hope you and your family can make it through this
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6 AntwortenI’m so, so sorry. I lost a close friend to cancer and it is the most heart-wrenching thing I’ll probably ever experience. I truly hate that you’ll have to suffer through it as well. I’ll pray both for her and for you folks. Stay strong, and remember that should the worst come to pass you [i]will[/i] see her again. [spoiler]Sorry, all out of salt.[/spoiler]