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11/5/2018 12:44:53 AM
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If I'm bi should I come out
I'm not sure if I should tell my parents and shit or just not tell anyone.
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Talk to your parents. If they don’t understand then find someone who does. There’s always someone out there to help. You don’t have to look hard. Maybe you have a friend who can help. Or a teacher. Someone you know you can trust.
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It’s up to you honesty, just know a lit of people are asshats so becareful
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1 AntwortenIf you're bi wouldn't you always only have one foot out of the closet
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Here's some questions you should ask. 1) Is there any clear indication either way of how they might react (are they fairly tolerant, known for supporting LGBT rights, or known to be very homophobic?) 2) Do you have a fallback plan if things go badly (a friend or relative you can stay with if the worst happens, etc) 3) Are you willing to risk the change in relationship that may happen? 4) Would you be okay with having to lie should you meet someone?
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No one cares.
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1 AntwortenJust come out. Your parents will support you I guarantee it.
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3 Antworten... You can never come out, you will always be trapped *dramatic pause* in the Twilight Zone... [spoiler]not included in the DLC[/spoiler]
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Have you actually had experience or just attractions? I think no need to make pronouncement unless you're sure.
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Lol 45 comments no upvotes
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2 AntwortenIf you make them think you are a furry first, then come out instead that you are just bi, they will probably accept you more then. [spoiler]Is joke, you laugh. Personally, I think you should come out and if they don't accept you...well good luck.[/spoiler]
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1 AntwortenI'm bi to [spoiler]bilingual[/spoiler]
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2 AntwortenI wouldn't bother. They won't care, just like they don't care about you.
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1 AntwortenI'm bi too, and while I have only came out to two people, I say you should do it.
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Do you watch mikeburnfire?
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1 AntwortenIf ur parents r religious, dont, its -blam!-ing suicide for u, if not, then go ahead
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Your sexual preference should only matter to yourself
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Bearbeitet von Next Week: 11/5/2018 3:54:23 PMIf you're worried about the outcome, probably best not to risk burning that bridge until you're out on your own and you're financially secure. Then you can tell them if you're not sure about slobbering on knobs.
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I would just live your life. No need to make a big deal about it, just be you :).
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You know your parents better than anyone of us so you know what to do more than any of us.
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Do what you think is right. Forget what anyone says. If you think coming out is right for yourself, then do it. Most idiots don’t have the courage you're thinking about. You’re gonna be trolled here by beta scrubs. Just be you and do what you think is right.
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Yeah I'm having the same problems. I'm Mr. Brightside and I'm not sure whether I should come out of my cage...
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5 AntwortenBearbeitet von The Hash Slinging Slasher: 11/5/2018 12:55:54 PMIm bi too but I act straight to keep people off my back. I have only told offtopic so far. I told my parents but they are religious so you can guess what they said. I acted like I agreed. They think I’m straight.
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3 AntwortenAm Caboose. Am should come out?
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Why do you have to? No offense, but it's not anyone's business who your bedmate is. I don't get this at all. Yes they are your parents, but unless it's an issue mom and dad aren't going to need to know.
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1 AntwortenAs long as it’s safe to come out to them. Do it. Coming out to your parents is something that may bring you closer together. When I came out to mine, it brought us closer. It also may make you feel better about yourself if you’re having problems of the sort. If it’s safe, just sit them down and tell them. Your dad may attempt to crack a joke (but that’s what dads are like). Your mum may cry or get teary eyed. Who knows this may not happen and they may exchange glances, get up and turns out one lost a bet. Regardless, safety is the key concern. Make sure you’re safe. Good luck.
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1 AntwortenNo. Don’t “come out”. Nobody gives a -blam!- about your sexuality. If you come out it’ll make you look like a little bitch and attention seeking.
