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Bearbeitet von A Tigerstorm:
9/23/2018 11:54:12 AM
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I feel like i can’t do anything right...
This is my second post in like 3 months about this subject, but lately I’ve been experiencing high levels of depression, anxiety, and basically a feeling of uselessness.
Every day I wake up I just feel like it’s a waste to even get up.
I’ve been failing a few grades in school, I’ve been making more and more mistakes with things I shouldn’t be mistaking, and recently I snapped at a few friends.
I need advice, or even just a friendly conversation.
Thank you for reading
Edit: Just woke up and found that this post exploded. Thank you all for the positive help and advice.
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1 AntwortenYou aren't alone
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Same problem bro. Have horrible grades, wake up every day wondering why I'm still here and I've noticed I'm losing friends because of my attitude
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Holy crap are you me
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2 AntwortenYou're probably right.
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7 AntwortenI hear ya. 5+ years of heavy Depression myself. I miss having friends....
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That’s called depression
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I can't say I relate, but I do understand what that can feel like. Stay optimistic. Things can always get better. And you said you were looking for friendly conversation? I'll be around.
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2 AntwortenI have that same feeling. It’s real tough. I only ever really do things if it benefits someone else and makes them happy. I won’t go into specifics, but you should get the point. I hate doing things even remotely selfish. Even something simple as asking a friend if I could borrow a pencil. Thoughts of “I’m wasting his time” and “I’m being an inconvenience right now” fill my head. But, of course, I have no intention of doing something like killing myself. It would devastate anyone close to me, and that’s what I would like to avoid. Plus, there are a few things I enjoy in life, too. I recently got into writing stories. I’m by no means an expert, but I’m not terrible either. I’m actually working on another one I started yesterday. So, I have no clue if I helped you in the slightest with this, but I hope I did. And I hope all turns out well for you.
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3 AntwortenNot saying you’re going to commit suicide, but reference this video if you ever plan to.
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2 AntwortenBearbeitet von Ricochet 049: 9/24/2018 9:01:29 AMHow old are you? And what would you say your general fitness is? I’ve had the feelings you’ve described. It made me angry enough to get up and change myself. A sense of duty and discipline keeps me feeling pretty positive. If you want I’d be happy to talk
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Every failure is a lesson. Nobody is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes. In fact, everyone makes extremely stupid dumbass mistakes once in a while. You’re not alone. And try not to get nervous about it. The more nervous you are, the higher the chances that you’ll mess up. And if you do mess up, just do better next time.
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2 AntwortenWould you look at that, razor blades are on sale at home depot
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Bearbeitet von SixtyLion: 9/24/2018 6:38:26 AMHey, you are not useless!!! You need to stay optimistic and focus on positive things in your life! Start doing small tasks, for example making your bed in the morning, this way you can begin your day by accomplishing something! Also, body, mind, soul! Do exercise, brisk 30-minute walk, will help you feel better, meditation, yoga, keep yourself busy, pick a new hobby, learn a new skill. Listen to some music!!! Pets!!! Family, friends, girlfriends! Volunteer work! Lastly, if you want to talk send me a private message, I’ll be more than happy to talk to you!
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The key: do not lose hope. Last year I put myself in the worst possible situation. I was failing all my chem tests for like 3 months. I had no hope.... But then I chose to persist. I chose to grab on. I chose to fight. Slowly and unexpectedly my grades went up and up. You see, everyone has a rough start. That’s because you have to test the waters. Can’t expect yourself to jump in flawlessly now can you? You’ll come out well. Last year, ironically, was one of the best years of my life.
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I go through this a lot and I found that shooting is a very good stress reliever. Another thing I found is that having a close friend you trust and just opening up to them is also an excellent way to vent. He helps me feel like I'm actually worth something. I do feel a little guilty with all of my problems, but he listens and helps me get through my day. If you ever need anything, I'm here.
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Find someone you trust, and talk to them about it. Opening up to someone you know cares for you can make things so much easier
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Lift weights, it’ll give you a purpose
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5 AntwortenMy suggestions, work out, fiddle with an instrument, find something to vent with. Drums can be pretty satisfying to bang on after a stressful day and you might pick up a few tunes on the way. Or work out and get built like a Greek statue. Sometimes life can be stressful, but it's just what it is. My solution? Find something you enjoy to vent it out on. Even if it means keeping your parents up till midnight practicing Nirvana songs. (Pretty easy songs to learn btw)
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I usually do target practice, listen to music, or tell a very close friend. All of these work for me so I hope at least one of these will for you!
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Tough love advice. Man up. Find something that interests you in life and go for it. Quit with the self pity.
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4 AntwortenI read, however being 2 and a half bottles into a 5 bityle box of wien, I may not be the best person to ghve advices at thisss pont in timd. dint go down the same road I did!
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1 AntwortenI’m sorry for this [spoiler] Life is precious, and suicide is a serious issue to be handled by licensed professionals. Bungie employees and forum moderators are not trained to handle those in a suicidal crisis; please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-TALK (8255). You may also wish to contact any of the following crisis prevention resources: US: www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org www.spanusa.org UK: http://www.nhs.uk/Conditions/Suicide/Pages/Getting-help.aspx Canada: http://suicideprevention.ca/thinking-about-suicide/find-a-crisis-centre/ International Directory: http://www.suicide.org/international-suicide-hotlines.html Military Crisis Line: Active duty, Guard and reserve service members, their families and friends stateside and in Europe have 24/7 access to the Military Crisis Line at no cost. For crisis support, those in the U.S. call 800-273-8255, then press 1. Callers in Europe dial 00800-1273-8255 or DSN 118. The toll-free service in Europe may not be available through all carriers or in all countries. Military One Source Toll Free Number: 800-342-9647 Military One Source Crisis Prevention: http://m.militaryonesource.mil/crisis-prevention [/spoiler]
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We all have bad days, perhaps even bad weeks, or months, sometimes even years, but if you let it get to you you'll never stop having the bad day, week, etc. So I hope you can shrug it off and start doing better for yourself.
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2 Antworten<You cannot stop it. I'm sending positive vibes your way and there's nothing you can do about it. They're coming.> [spoiler]<Honestly tho, you're fine. Don't get to hung up about it bruv>[/spoiler]
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Bearbeitet von Ogma: Destroyer of Worlds: 9/23/2018 3:25:18 PMWell, life kind of does suck. And no, I’m not encouraging you to continue not giving a shit. I’m just too much of a realist to say otherwise. Humans seem to have a hard time accepting that. We have a hard time accepting the reality of our situation, and too often we life to ourselves about it. Find what you love, and lose yourself in it. That’s the best, and arguably only good way, to stifle those thoughts and get through life.
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You gotta put yourself into something you love. Get a hobby and throw everything you have into it. Always be working toward something. And as for your grades, it's hardly going to matter in the grand scheme of things. Always strive for greatness, but don't beat yourself up when you come up short. I'm speaking from a place of uptick, but I've been where you've been my friend. Things get better, but you've gotta keep going.
