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2/23/2017 3:15:19 PM
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Advice for a guy on girls (college)
Note: This post is intended to get help from people either in college or recently through it. Not because I think other people won't give helpful responses, but because they understand the context of my situation.
So I'm in a non-music major orchestra and there's this girl in it I kind of want to start talking to. Problem is, we only rehearse on Tuesdays and Thursdays and there is very little time to try and talk (before/after rehearsal). Also, we don't know each other really other than our names.
So how should I go about dealing with the situation? Just randomly approach her and start talking (how?), or wait until the off chance of something more natural happening (idk if anything like that will happen)?
Thanks in advance
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Ask for her number, then you're definitely set for having conversation. Other than that, good luck
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Have you guys shared words before? Full on conversations?
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1 AntwortenI think ur into dudes
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2 AntwortenToast/envelope
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By talking to her. Ask her to get a drink or coffee
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3 AntwortenBone all the girls on campus. Yes even the ugly ones.
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1 AntwortenConstruct a wooden effigy in her image, then set it aflame with the fires of your heart (and actual fire, since your heart won't actually make it catch fire). She'll be all over you. She'll have to converse with you then! Be warned, though. Several things can go wrong which I will now go over in detail in the section below. --- [b]Warning:[/b] Make sure you can identify which one is the [b]effigy[/b] and which one is the [b]human[/b]. You don't want to accidentally burn the wrong one. Instead of being all over you, she'll just be all over. [b]Second Warning:[/b] Do not "[i]accidentally[/i]" fall in love with the effigy while creating it. Your family will not understand the love you two will share. [b]Third Warning:[/b] Do not, and I repeat, do not-- [i]What was that noise? Oh, hold on a second. My wife's arm just fell off. I gotta go fix it right quick... ... ... ... Alright, I'm back. Where were we? Hey, you seem concerned... If it's about my wife, you really shouldn't be concerned. I mean, it isn't that big of a deal. You see, the wood I used to build her isn't exactly the strongest, so it falls apart rather easily. Especially the arms.[/i] (I really went on a tangent there. I guess that's why this subforum is called... *puts on sunglasses* ...Off-Topic. YEEAAAHHHH!)
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Naturally start talking to her and ask if she'd like to go for a walk with you for something. Just let things happen.
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Just talk to her. Introduce yourself and see where things head on from there. Give her a compliment if you have enough courage. Saying something like, "I love your hair" or "lovely shirt your wearing" can probably make her happy. Just be yourself. But honestly man, I've only had like one girlfriend years ago and that was it. My advice might not be the best for everyone, but it's usually the way to go.
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Ask her if your rag smells like chloroform.
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Judging from the title alone and all the trans posts I've been seeing around here. I thought you were a trans girl going to an all female college. Whatever is your problem, good luck.
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I'd say become her friend first. Note this is somewhat risky as it leaves open a chance for someone else to ask her out or for you to be friend zoned. But if you can pull it off successfully then it'll be very worthwhile. I'd say get to know her for about a month or two then ask her out on date. If you manage to become close within those couple months then a movie would be okay otherwise avoid taking her to movie as they don't leave much room to talk.
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[spoiler]JUST DO IT!!![/spoiler]
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7 AntwortenBearbeitet von A Spooky Reaper: 2/24/2017 12:24:01 AMHi *blank*, I'd like to get to know you better. Would you want to go to *insert date location here* with me this weekend? Probably best to open with a complement.
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wear something flashy or something she likes learn more about her. just dont overdo it cause then she'll think you're weird as for awkward moments that what makes things fun imo.
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I have zero experience with relationships, so the best advice I can give is the toast/envelope method.
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Ask her to get coffee. Very simple.
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Bearbeitet von TwoTapsBANGBANG: 2/24/2017 4:03:26 PMOffer to take her for a little drinkypoo - if she says no then move on. Also clarify that a drinkypoo is not a cup of shite.
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I'm going to assume by "recently through [college]" you mean ten years. You shouldn't wait for "the off chance something natural happens" for two reasons: A) the odds of people being forced into a situation where they are able to bond is much smaller than the odds of them bonding after one approaches the other and B) the longer you wait, the more opportunity someone else has to step in. You could take the direct approach and just ask her out for lunch or something OR you could be a bit more subtle and invite her and others (at the same time) to go out to eat, catch a movie on campus, play ultimate frisbee, hang out on the quad, etc. Personally, I'd go with the second approach for a few reasons: 1) People are more likely to agree to hang out with a group than someone they barely know 2) It's less awkward for both of you if she says "no" (you were inviting everyone, remember, not her specifically) 3) You seem to barely know this girl, so having an opportunity to get to know her better before you opt for 1-on-1 time might be a good idea
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2 AntwortenDon't other think it. Don't try to create some magical scenario(as in, you'll say this this and this and come across as super funny/nice/charming.) Do be genuine. Just talk to her about something relevant exactly as you would to your best friend. If you want to have a relationship with this girl, start a relationship. Don't overthink these things. Get to know her and let her get to know you. Things will move on organically from there.
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Bearbeitet von Sage: 2/24/2017 6:02:34 AMMy advice? -blam!- every -blam!-able girl you see! It has made my prostate angry and my dick happy. [spoiler]You know, you can create a natural scenario to talk to her- you're in the same class- that's easy already. Be like "wow prof so and so is sucha beezy for this." BOOM [/spoiler]
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Punch her right in the mouth as an icebreaker. Then just keep the conservation flowing! [spoiler]No seriously though just say something. Too many people probably miss out on relationships because of fear. If she's not with anyone you're gonna hate yourself if she ends up dating someone else. If you think you are attractive and nice enough to get her, then go for it.[/spoiler]
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Walk up to her & say, "Hi, my name is--" then just lick your eyebrows, after that, she won't care what your name is anyways. If she has a hot friend, then instead of your eyebrows, use your tongue to slick your hair back from forehead to the back of your neck.
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All you need to do is [spoiler]BLNK TOW OP NURK IT IMEDITLY OMG BUNKIE WHAT THE FURK IM DUNE WORTH YOR SHITTTTTTYTY GAME BLNK IS WAY TOW OP NURK IT KNOW OR IL GIT MY DAD WHO WOKS FER MICRO SOFT TOOOOW HVE U SHOT DOWNE OMMMMGGGG ME GOD TOOOW OPPP FURK YOU BURNGIE!!!!!!!!!!!! [/spoiler]
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Make a post on a gaming websi... Oh. You already did.
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Have you tried not talking to her and then 20 years later wonder what could've happened as you cry softly in your bed alone?
