And you see someone who is a higher light level and you want help... [b]don't spam them with game invites or party chats[/b], send them a message first and see if they're busy or if they even want to help you... spammed invites are so annoying.
Edit: I thought I was alone. Clearly, a lot of people feel the same as me; send us a message telling us what you need help with. It's not that hard. No message. No help. Spam = blocked.
Edit 2: This goes for friends, too. I don't mind helping out. I don't think I'm better than anyone, but there's still stuff I need to do in this game from week to week, so just send me a message to see if I'm busy. Out of all the comments, one person thinks I'm a douche. Lol. Look at my k/d and all my raid completions... I'm not a top tier player, I don't play Trials, and I just recently started doing KF on hard. My wording might suck, but the point still stands. And we're trending.
Edits 3: It seems I've been called an idiot and also told to get a life. Feel free to insult me. I'll just add you to my mute list. Thanks! Also, so many replies. Holy moly. Judging by the comments, I can tell who that one annoying friend is... All the down votes must be those same exact people I wish to avoid.
Edit 4: 300 upvotes. Thanks guys and girls. Keep it up.
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1 AntwortenI randomly get tower blueberries to add me as a friend without even sending me a game invite or message. Creepy as -blam!-
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3 AntwortenHonestly, any post that starts trending will attract assholes NO MATTER what the post is about. Its crazy
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3 AntwortenWhen I don't want to be bothered I just set my system to show that I'm off-line when I'm playing!😁
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I know what u mean. I am definitely not an elite player. I don't really play any raids or trials. Sometimes i want ppl to tell me what they need b4 i join them. 1 time a guy needed the exotic sword but didn't tell me. I'm wondering why the sunless cell is so much harder than usually then it dawns on me:"oh he doing the sunless cell 4 his exotic sword." Thanks 4 telling me. By not telling me, u -blam!-ed me which in turn -blam!-ed yourself bc i wasn't as prepared as i could have been. I should've just left the activity but i didn't. Needless to say he got his sword. I told him abt it after and he replied "yep". Just have them tell them u what they want/need and act accordingly.
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8 AntwortenIll even ask people sending invites what they want and they don't respond
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5 AntwortenI bought Destiny on Day One. I've played through all the DLC. Done as much as I possibly can, Quests, Patrols, Strikes etc. Other than the Strikes I have played completely solo as, being a 40 year old geezer with a family, I don't have a lot of time to grind through games. And I have never completed a Raid. Which I would love to do. Back when Destiny was fresh, I did start the Vault of Glass with some guys, and a gal, on a second party website. It took us an age to get started on that Friday night. We gathered again on Saturday and again on Sunday. This was back when there wasn't tons of videos to watch on YouTube. I couldn't stay past a couple of hours on that Sunday as a had work, so I never finished with them. They're all top tier now while I'm still light level 261. None of us knew what we were really doing. We died a lot. But it was some of the most fun I've had on a video game. I'd love to join a group and do raids as not doing feels like most of Destiny is off limits to me, but I don't want to be the weak link. I'm not a terribly good player. PvP is challenging, so I stick to Control, as that seems to gain me more points. This is why I'm thinking of not getting Rise of Iron. When half the content will be out of bounds. Destiny is for groups. Us solo-ers are being left behind.
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4 AntwortenThis. And for the love of God, don't just jump in my fire team without an invite. I'm usually fine to roll with whatever. But ask first. It's super intrusive. I don't let my gf drop by my place unannounced. What makes you think I'm ok with you doing it? Boundaries man.
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1 AntwortenNeed 1 random for trials. Will carry you to light house. Message "Dexla" if Interested
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1 AntwortenOne if my friends was invited to play trials. But the funny thing was the person inviting him was a streamer. He kindly refused but the people watching him got mad that he didn't accept his offer so they started spamming him with invites. Kinda rude.
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Joined an invite to this random guy and he wanted to do a 2 man VOG. I just left. Would have been fun if there were at least 4 of us
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To level 17 that spammed me party, game invites and added me. No. I won't.
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Every time I get a game invite with the generic 'Play Destiny!' message, I just look at it and think to myself, "Thanks for the unsolicited advice but can't you see that I already am playing Destiny?" Then proceed to ignore the invite.
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Got to admit an invite around the tower is how i found the guys i raid with. Me ill help players with stuff on destiny but the only thing i tend to ignore is buddy invites from players.
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Bearbeitet von INSULT: 8/27/2016 6:43:27 AMI had a kid invite me to party up and play. I mistook him for a girl at first, and decided it'd be fine to talk. I just spoke quietly. They called me weird for being quiet. I realized I was playing with a young boy and regret started to creep in. I've read the horror stories of "squeakers". But other than being mildly annoying and pestering me to talk at all times, I was fine with it. ....[b]So [/b]then I'm in his fireteam. He was a level 34 IIRC. I wrongfully assumed he needed help with all the new missions, which I'm willing to do... but we dip to two-man the VoG with no warning whatsoever. I felt like I was doing well. I would clear my side of the oracles and occasionally shoot one of his out, but lbr, I'm hardly a raider. When he went AFK I did my best to solo and couldn't cut it. Told him if he really wanted to do this, he'd need more people. But he misunderstood and insisted we can two-man it. But I was losing my patience and my will to keep going. He just kept pushing and couldn't stand my quiet nature. Told him good luck, have fun. But I couldn't. Nope. After all that, I felt like crap. So chances are I'll decline any future requests that aren't accompanied by "plz help with -" messages. Never again. -.- Sometimes I still get random invites from people whose GTs I don't recognize, even when I'm not playing Destiny. All this does is send me into worry mode, trying to figure out who this person is, what they really want, and who they know. No trust, lol.
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With regards to edit 3: Hitler had a lot of [url=http://www.wikipedia.org/wiki/Godwin%27s_law]-godwinslaw!-[/url] supporters. Doesnt mean he was correct. Bottom line: people love to think theyre important or needed. You are all so self righteous and 90% of you on here arent worth a damn. Negative k/d's. Never done a raid. Never done anything. Its pathetic
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I get this too often
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1 AntwortenYES! THANK YOU! Someone finally said it!
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If you message first 9 times out of 10 you'll get a response.
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Say what you want to do or what you need help with. If you can't take the time to write a message then I don't have time to respond to your generic play destiny message
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At the very least, tell me what you are trying to do. Do not just send an invite & expect to get what you want. There are guardians that are will to help ( myself included ). Please, tell us what you need help with & stop with the invite spams. V
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1 AntwortenI'll do what I want...plus I don't want to ask for help, I'm a lone potato, destined to spud about on my own.
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I much prefer receiving a message proposing what the player wants help with than an automatic invite/friend request. I have no idea if I'll want to do the activity they end up choosing for us, or if I'll even like their way. At least a message communicates this plus a bit of their personality.
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I'll pop a message back asking them what they want to do. I rarely get anything back, tbh. I'm fine with that. If they keep spamming invites I'll block them. I'll pretty much block people if they just send a fr, I don't understand why people do that!
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It's always funny, if I reply and ask, what they want to do and then I simply get another invite ;-) I'm not reacting then and if they keep spamming me, I go to orbit...