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Bearbeitet von BadWolf30:
8/4/2016 8:04:36 AM
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Was I wrong here?
So I was talking to my husband, who refuses to help people level up in our clan. While me and him both are in charge of it, I added some new folks who were in need of help. He goes and removes them because as he says "we don't have time for scrubs". Me being the nicer person say we were once them, that it could be fun to help new people.
Was I in the wrong for wanting to help them out?
Edit: thanks everyone for the advice. I told him at the end of the day the only reason he was in charge of anything was because I have it set up that way. So we decided to start talking about decisions before anything is set in stone
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#Destiny
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1 AntwortenAren't you grown enough to know what's right and wrong?
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6 AntwortenThis is 100% an attention post. I read it as: "I did something nice, was I wrong? Please tell me that it was good, I'd like to hear you say that."
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3 AntwortenWhen you serve him with the divorce papers make sure you write, "No time for scrubs" on the envelope first.
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1 AntwortenBearbeitet von MAD X H0USE: 8/5/2016 4:41:01 PMDelegate responsibilities. Just because you're the leaders, doesn't mean you have to do everything yourselves. Pair up your low guys with 1-2 more experienced volunteers who share similar interests (be it PvP or PvE) and let them be responsible for guiding their new Battle Buddies to higher Light Levels. Personally, I don't mind. This guy Replied to me on the forums earlier this week mentioning he was looking for some help to level up a new Xbox Character by running Vanguard Strikes. He already had Max Characters on PS4, and was already Lvl 40, so it wasn't like I was single-handedly backpacking him and his buddy. (Both were roughly 260-270 and reached 290+ by the end of the night) Then they switched over to the PS4 to help one of their friends, and his son took over on a lvl 8 Titan. We ran through some story missions, and I just kinda hung back and popped shots at the strongest enemies to help him make his way through with dying. It was fun being able to play with the old Fatebringer again. 😁 Rule of thumb: Set the example. Be the Guardian you would want to run up to if you needed help. -MAD X H0USE Bonus Story: I once ran 7 VoG Raids in one week, back when I only played 1 character simply because I wanted to help all my friends get their sweet loot. During TDB and HoW, we used to Sherpa Randies through the Raids because our team had gotten so used to 4-manning it, that we could carry if we had to. It's refreshing to hear the Noobs get excited for their first ever ChatterWhite. Lol If only they knew...
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My wife and I are in a similar situation as yourself, My wife is the clan leader whilst I am one of 6 worldwide admins, We welcome new players, and even look through the forums to try and help others get their first raid completions... Your husband does not know how good some of these guys will get after they get their training wheels off. Let's be honest it's not as if destiny is MLG and we need to train at 100% all the time to be able to "compete" The game does not need elitist attitudes.... The forums are bad enough ("need ghorn" anyone?) Any way that's my perspective Good luck hope it works out for you.
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Depends... some people wants you to do their work (insta kick/block/mute) Real gamers are way too busy to ask for help, but when they ask, they have half the way done already. (Friend request/party invite) XD
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5 AntwortenYou have the vagina. Remind him lol.. [spoiler]I love the kind of woman that can kick my ass. Especially when I'm gagged and blindfolded..[/spoiler]
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1 AntwortenIt's Destiny... it's a fps... not World of Warcraft. If people can't grasp a game as simplistic as Destiny....
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I would join your clan but not your husbands! Not that I'm saying leave your husband and make a clan with me! No! Nothing like that! Just sounds like with two such opposing ideologies jostling for leadership something is bound to crack eventually! If it does all go tits up come help me start the Democratic Guardians of fun and Frolics in bikinis! 50/50
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8 AntwortenNah your husband is just a dick. I hope he gets guerilla fighter and exhumed on every weapon he gets
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Easy really say to him "your dick won't get wet if you don't help out new people, masturbation can be a lonely place" I bet his attitude changes after that.
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This post is the reason why this community/game has hope even when bungle is trying it's best to fail.
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20 AntwortenSounds like you're with a zero. Why don't you start hanging with a hero. [spoiler]thats me in case you were wondering[/spoiler] [spoiler]I'm just kidding, I'm married too[/spoiler] [spoiler]please don't tell my wife[/spoiler]
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You can always find a new clan, raid team or a new husband :)
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Absolutely help others level up, this game is more fun to play with others, even when replaying old content, plus, when they get to your level you have more options for a raid team
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Your clan mission statement is just 1 sentence and actually offers help. So besides being a dick I say your husband is wrong. If he feels that way maybe you should expand on your mission statement and describe more of what you're about and who you will and will NOT tolerate.
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1 AntwortenTell him to sleep on the couch until he learns to be nice and a team player. It's all about compromise.
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Tell him to make you a sandwich a pipe down
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When the fallen break through, your husband will have himself to depend on. Maybe that works in trials, but practice against other guardians for glory in the arena should not over ride the greater need of guardians to unite against the coming darkness. His actions sets him apart from the vanguard. Following the footsteps of others like Dredgen Yor or Osiris himself. Standing alone- against the darkness only leads to bad things. (Speaking from Lore as i dont know either of you personally)
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Nope, you're the type of person that makes the Destiny community good. I wish I had someone to help me through the early days. Now I try and help people as much as possible. He needs to remember he was a "scrub" once.
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Is he Michael Keaton's character from "the other guys" He might just be quoting TLC lyrics.
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You are right [i]and [/i]wrong You are right for wanting to help others You are wrong for adding them without discussing it with him, since you are both admins...
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No I think you were right for wanting to help out some players, he's the scrub for sure
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I think he's right, if you wanna spend time together having fun it shouldn't consist from helping others, he just wants the best for both of you I'm sure of that.
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No,.he's a douche bag (sorry bit true) gamer and a toxin to any community
